I quit drinking 70 days ago today.
One of my reasons for quitting was because I was ready to find a significant other.
Now that I don’t go out to bars, clubs and parties, the only females I really spend time around are at work.
Where do you all go to meet people? Its hard knowing I could head to the bar and get a little flirting action at least.
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You could literally meet someone anywhere so I wouldnt stress too much. My parents met at a 7/11 , met my husband through some friends while getting drinks lol but he actually asked me on a real date.
My brother met his fiance through a mens & women baseball league. I imagine my sister will meet her husband through church.
I know someone who met their significant other while doing a 10k race.
Just do things that make you happy and let love take its course.
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Congrats on day 70 days clean very well done. @Adam_Olinger u got something to care for like : dance, training, books , movies . There is all kinds of groups u could check out for socialising . Be open minded . Good luck
Don’t be afraid to try dating sites. One point I tried Match.com and it worked pretty well for me. Reason it is good is because these people are looking for someone. Being 70 days sober and ready be serious with someone, you’re in a good position to be on there. That’s just my suggestion. Your can even match up with someone who doesn’t drink either. One of the questions all the sites ask
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Totally go online! There are many different sites with different types of people. You can meet someone you wouldn’t have any chance of running into in the real world, and can make sure you have the same interests and values first. It’s not all easy, it can be a bit of a time waster and there are some idiots out there, but it can be worth it. I met my boyfriend on OkCupid, I found it to be the best site with a lot of people into the arts etc, that I found interesting. Good luck!
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