# Advice for the Newcomer and Constant Relapser

**URL:** https://talkingsober.com/t/advice-for-the-newcomer-and-constant-relapser/11064
**Category:** Advice & Questions
**Tags:** motivation, sobriety
**Created:** [April 17, 2017, 9:05pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/advice-for-the-newcomer-and-constant-relapser/11064 "2017-04-17T21:05:41Z")
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### Author: ![Melrm](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/melrm/32/21906_2.png) [@Melrm](https://talkingsober.com/u/Melrm)
#### Post date: [April 17, 2017, 9:54pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/advice-for-the-newcomer-and-constant-relapser/11064/6 "2017-04-17T21:54:40Z")

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Phase 4 Positive thinking, change mindset, rewiring your negative thought habits

[http://talkingsober.com/t/positive-thinking-benefits/479?u=melrm](http://talkingsober.com/t/positive-thinking-benefits/479)

> [@Let's Start A Positivity (Motivation) Chain](http://talkingsober.com/t/lets-start-a-positivity-motivation-chain/5634):
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> I have decided to take this time out to start a positivity chain. Someone maybe going through right now and just needs to hear a good word to start their day, get through their day, finish their day, or even just to help them stay on the sobriety path. Let’s take the time out to leave some good energy to make someone else’s day.

> [@Making a positive experience out of a negative experience](http://talkingsober.com/t/making-a-positive-experience-out-of-a-negative-experience/292):
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> Turning a negative experience into something more positive is not always easy, and can be confronting at times. From my research and what I am learning there are ways to take a bad situation and get /learn something positive from it. I have been trying to be mindful that when negative things happen, I keep telling myself “this will pass” every bad moment in life will end at some point, which can be a comfort during the worst of times. I then try to make purpose of what has happened and learn f…

> [@Inspirational Articles, Quotes, Musings](http://talkingsober.com/t/inspirational-articles-quotes-musings/8747):
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> Today’s Quotation: Every person must follow his or her own process. No one else knows what is right for another. There is no goal in living our process, except to live it. Our processes can change. Our lives can change as we participate in the process. Our only requirement is to trust the process and live in faith. Our responsibility is to live out what our Creator asks of us. To live our lives. Living our process demands a deep spiritual commitment of being one with one’s life. Anne Wilson Sc…

> [@We are badass! Share some quotes revolving\_heartssmiling\_face\_with\_sunglasses](http://talkingsober.com/t/we-are-badass-share-some-quotes/629):
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