Been sober now for 11 months about to hit a year and I’m taking it really hard
What’s been hard for you?
Welcome to Talking Sober
Agreed with @Matt what has been hitting you?
Welcome as well and we are here for you!
Not unusual for newly sober to feel itchy just before approaching milestones. Once achieved, usually solidify recovery.
Otherwise back to day 1 or worse.
I was actually quite blue on my one year anniversary. I was actually very proud of my year but felt like other people were not understanding how big a deal it was. In the end I decided I could celebrate exactly how I wanted rather than expecting others to do it for me. I booked a tattoo appointment and bought myself a 1 year coin and went to a meeting.
Congratulations!! Celebrate you.
Feel free to share your feelings here, this is the best place. Wishing you all of the best in your continued sobriety
Welcome and big congrats on almost 1 year sober! I hit 1 year last week. The day after was harder than I imagined. I had to give myself a new goal to work toward. 500 days.
Keep up the good work.