Any other love addicts?

Looking for support, friendship, and community with other love addicts. Thanks!

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Me. It is currently 3 am here for me. I can’t sleep. I went and saw my ex fiancé yesturday and I regret it every time. I just feel so shit when I leave him. Yet I keep going back. I keep answering his msgs, his calls. It has been a year! I need to be done with this chapter. So I can move on. I know he has moved on, he told me. He said yesturday I am his past yet he misses me so he checks in on me. Just makes you feel
Like crap. If I’m your past why you want to hang out? Just does my head in, I know this post was from a year ago. I hope your well. But yes I think I may be a love addict.

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I feel the same way, me and my ex split over a year ago and yet she still finds reasons to stop by (things of mine she found or whatever) even though she knows that it hurts me. I feel like I’m being strung along.

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It’s honestly on pa with drug addiction. It’s horrible. Day one today no talking to him. It’s this horrible Melbourne rain. Making me feel so bored and un easy. Going to go to gym today and go see a movie, maybe go to the shops. Chill out before the new week. How long have you been broken up for?
Sometimes you just have to pull away from them. I need to remember that I can’t move forward if I keep giving my energy to him. I need to be selfish now. I’ve said this like every month this year. It’s been a year I can’t believe it. And I’m in the same place I was at the beginning. Changed slightly but still feeling like we just broke up yesturday. While he is out partying. I need to move on! I got this lol

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You can do this, keep busy and be selfish, the most important person to you is you :blush: we’ve been broken up around a year and a half, maybe more. A large part of it was due to my drinking, then after that my drinking increased significantly. Now I’m 5 days sober.

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Thanks congrats on 5 days sober!

We also broke up partly because of my drinking and his meth addiction. I am 57 days off meth. I wanted to stop taking meth when I was with him, he didn’t so I drank more. Was a disaster! So I don’t smoke meth and I’m drinking much much less. And I’m noticing a huge difference when i don’t Hopefully down track I won’t even drink.
Thanks for the reply means a lot. A got through the night. Was hard. So thank you.

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I’m glad I could help :blush: pm me if you ever feel the need to. I’m happy for you and that your doing better.