Its hard the first few days, but it does get easier.
A meeting would be great maybe ?
There are many online meetings and face to face meetings.
I was told once
" show me your friends and il show you your future"
Some people stop because they know they have to, others unfortunately are forced to stop by serious and sad and also deadly situations.
Here is the link for a thread that has all diff kind of online meetings and info, take a look 