I’m new here and have a lot to say. I’m not sure if this is how it’s done… but, I feel I need people’s advice please. I’m not sure I’m right in the head.
Today I admitted to myself that I’ve had a problem with the drink heavy for the last few months and it’s been savage. But, it hasn’t stopped me. There’s a pattern with me. Twice a year around may for a month and then September/October, I smash the alcohol and sabotage my life. It’s been ongoing forever. But the other few months, I’m on a mission and create. It’s always one or the other.
When I go into these dips though, I neglect EVERYONE around me. I became quite self absorbed and ashamed. I’m rude. I ignore everyone. Then I drink and become a weirdo to my partner and act like a barbarian. I hold so much guilt.
Last night I really went to town and a beast was unleashed. I have no idea where it has come from. That’s not my temperament. But I was raging. My poor man was horrified. He didn’t deserve it. He’s perfect and our relationship is like something out of a movie. It’s the cutest thing ever.
But the last 5 weeks my mental health hit an all time low and I went suicidal. I tried hanging myself and overdosing. I couldn’t get it out of my head. It was messy and he had to deal with that too. We’ve only been together 5 months. I think I’ve ruined it.
I’m not sure if it’s because I’m grieving over the loss of my mum and I feel so much guilt there. I’m angry at myself and my dad for my mums death. It was only 6 months ago.
There is a pattern though. Is it wise to go public with it? Like I’m normally out there helping others. It’s what I live for. But I’ve just let people down constantly lately.
Would this be ok on social media?
This is probably UP THERE with being one of the hardest things I think I have EVER admitted to.
The last few months I have loved every part of my life passionately. I’ve fallen in love with the kindest loving soul to ever walk this planet and I was blessed with him as my partner.
But me being me has sabotaged EVERYTHING!
You see, I’ve been an alcoholic the last few months and been ashamed of it because it’s not me and it changes me. Hence why I’ve been scatty and erratic.
I’ve lost my identity to the drink. I’ve faced consequences of my mental health falling to the lowest of point. Yet I still choose to pick the drink every time.
I have a problem and because I don’t know when to stop I’ve hurt the people I love the most because of it.
I’m not asking for sympathy. I know I’ve fucked up. I am asking for support and love though and also forgiveness. I’ve been very selfish of late.
I AM SORRY! To those who have loved me and not been loved by me.
My reasoning for airing my shit out publicly is because I need to take accountability for my actions and do something. Speak up and be real.
I struggle with life. Reality. Because I choose the bottle. I refuse to do that anymore.
It’s time to pop the bubble and get involved and stop being ashamed of who and what I am. I am an alcoholic in recovery. I promise I’ve got this and I will make good.