# Check in / Sobriety Tools

**URL:** https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047
**Category:** Advice & Questions
**Tags:** sobriety
**Created:** [December 10, 2024, 4:41pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047 "2024-12-10T16:41:38Z")
**Posts on this page:** 8
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### Author: ![LizzyFizzySoda](https://talkingsober.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/eada6e/32.png) [@LizzyFizzySoda](https://talkingsober.com/u/LizzyFizzySoda)
#### Post date: [December 10, 2024, 4:41pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047/1 "2024-12-10T16:41:38Z")

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Day 2  
Hi! New here! After many attempts at sobriety, I am finally starting to find some new “tools” to help on this journey. This app being one of them. I also discovered that I have no desire to drink after eating. So I try to make sure to eat dinner by 6 to avoid the temptation. Curious, what tools does everyone have in their tool box to help?

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### Author: ![Matt](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/matt/32/94732_2.png) [@Matt](https://talkingsober.com/u/Matt)
#### Post date: [December 10, 2024, 4:51pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047/2 "2024-12-10T16:51:37Z")

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Welcome @LizzyFizzySoda! 👋

Personally for my toolbox I use HALT a lot:  
Hungry  
Angry  
Lonely  
Tired

If I am feeling any of those things, that is a red flag, and I need to take care of it so it doesn’t throw me off balance.

You can learn more - and share your own experiences - in the checkin thread here:

> [@Checking in daily to maintain focus #72](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-72/189806/):
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> Continuing the discussion from [Checking in daily to maintain focus #71 - #2549 by Rockstar24777](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-71/188646/2549). Previous discussions: [Checking in daily to maintain focus #31 (Part 1)](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-31-part-1/120120)[Checking in daily to maintain focus #31 (Part 2)](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-31-part-2/121718)[Checking in daily to maintain focus #32](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-32/123231)[Checking in daily to maintain focus #33](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-33/125135)[Checking in daily to maintain focus #34](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-34/127175)[Checking in daily to maintain focus #35](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-35/129255)[Checking in daily to maintain focus #36](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-36/130957)[Checking in daily to maintain focus #37](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-37/132559)[Checking in daily to maintain focus #38](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-38/134419)[C…](https://talkingsober.com/t/checking-in-daily-to-maintain-focus-39/136605)

Welcome to Talking Sober!

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### Author: ![Cjp](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/cjp/32/327367_2.png) [@Cjp](https://talkingsober.com/u/Cjp)
#### Post date: [December 11, 2024, 1:29am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047/4 "2024-12-11T01:29:31Z")

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Therapy and AA

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### Author: ![JazzyS](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/jazzys/32/481728_2.png) [@JazzyS](https://talkingsober.com/u/JazzyS)
#### Post date: [December 11, 2024, 3:40am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047/5 "2024-12-11T03:40:08Z")

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Welcome to the community and a huge congrats on your sober days 👏🏽👏🏽

A few things that helped me in the early days…

\*Changing up routines is great. We have to work on rewiring our minds.  
\*Keeping yourself busy so you don’t have time to deal with urges is great like play games, book, clean, exercise, puzzles, knitting, walking …etc.  
\*Stay hydrated - need to flush out the toxins from your system

- Sleep when you can. You will feel super tired while your body works hard to detox  
\*Stay connected. . community is key in our journey so we don’t feel alone. This community was my safe haven. AA or other recovery groups are also helpful. Getting a sponsor may be useful to stay accountable

Just a few to help you get started. Read around. Many great threads here with loads of tips and advice.

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### Author: ![Dustysprungfield](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/dustysprungfield/32/357844_2.png) [@Dustysprungfield](https://talkingsober.com/u/Dustysprungfield)
#### Post date: [December 11, 2024, 6:28am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047/6 "2024-12-11T06:28:36Z")

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“this too will pass” it can be powerful. Whatever you’re feeling, it will pass. Recognize it, accept it, work your way out of it. Reaching for a bottle won’t help it.  
Find an exit strategy that works. Go for a walk, eat, sleep. Whatever works!

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### Author: ![Steeve](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/steeve/32/453978_2.png) [@Steeve](https://talkingsober.com/u/Steeve)
#### Post date: [December 17, 2024, 3:33pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047/7 "2024-12-17T15:33:28Z")

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Tools. Need tools. Is there anyone here that has a few tricks or methods or anything to get thru the “thinking I can have a few” times…

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### Author: ![DarrenUK](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/darrenuk/32/354766_2.png) [@DarrenUK](https://talkingsober.com/u/DarrenUK)
#### Post date: [December 17, 2024, 5:43pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047/9 "2024-12-17T17:43:50Z")

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Welcome 🙏

I go to AA meetings to share about my experiences, engage with others and speak about my feelings

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### Author: ![Philipwithonel](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/philipwithonel/32/442699_2.png) [@Philipwithonel](https://talkingsober.com/u/Philipwithonel)
#### Post date: [December 19, 2024, 1:48pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/check-in-sobriety-tools/190047/10 "2024-12-19T13:48:42Z")

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I want to start up therapy again
