It’s definitely not weak, and it’s definitely not bullshit. Love will always win, I firmly believe that. You’re right, disengaging is the answer. My fault was feeling that I should speak for the many, like you, who despise confronting others. I was not given the megaphone, but I took it and spoke on their behalf without their permission. I suppose it was my misguided attempt at protection. I’m still learning to control my ego and allow devolving arguments to pass. Crawling into the pit with those who thrive there will never amount to constructive progress.
Thanks for helping me to process.