52 days sober!! It’s been easy going as I have taken time out from a lot of negative people but party season around the corner, I feel it’s going to get tough! I’m focusing on my goals and want to hit 60 days then 90days. But I’m worried with Xmas coming I will loose sight - Sometimes it helps to look at how far I’ve come to tackle what I have ahead! I know I can’t spend Christmas crippled with anxiety from being blackout drunk the night before or passed out some random taxi - I don’t want to go back to blackout - stay strong everyone
Try to make a plan and To Do list for Christmas with family, hanging out, traveling somewhere with them, camping, decorate the house, cooking, prepare the movies to watch on DVD, stay way from things that could adversely affect on you, dont give attention foe event parties or bars and clubs, look to thingsbuild your life nd your relationship with family closed members nd careing ppl for any AAmembers around you upthere… Nd we here for any help or advice we can present
Thank you, great advice, have some time planned with my young son which means alcohol free activities, not doing the Xmas party with work so I think some nice days out walking will be good. I’m not a great planner and it’s something I need to work on, being sober can only help. When I drink my life spirals into chaos. Thanks again for the advice
Yes your are right, so easy to get caught in the hype of it alll - I read somewhere on a blog that your first sober Xmas will be your best, here is hoping