Closed - Checking in daily to help maintain focus #5

Intentionally difficult and blatantly taking the piss out of people are two completely different things

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Tbh it didnā€™t bother me not even when several other members Jumped on the band wagon but he doesnā€™t know me, how would he know what effect that would have on someone. You yourself try to be considerate to people he obviously doesnā€™t :+1::slightly_smiling_face::slightly_smiling_face:

No you didnā€™t offend me m8,I can tell the difference between a bit of light-hearted banter (I work in the building industry which is full of it :joy:) and something with seemingly more malicious intent. :+1::slightly_smiling_face::slightly_smiling_face::slightly_smiling_face:

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Checking in on day 422 with hope for a peaceful day.

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Guess you havenā€™t been reading many threads today lol

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On purpose. Because I am hoping for a peaceful day. :wink:

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I admire your level-headedness.

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Thank you. I used to be known for it, then got really bad at it, so Iā€™m happy to be learning how to get it back again.

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Seems I somehow miss everythingā€¦although maybe Iā€™m not really missing it?
alreadystarted

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Smart @ifs itā€™s not worth sacrificing peace over some of the childish behavior thatā€™s been going on. Iā€™ve been off the forum a bit for the past few days and Iā€™m trying to figure out what the heck happened. But honestly I donā€™t really care what happened. I just want to be able to come here and be encouraged or inspired and to do the same for others.

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I havenā€™t been sober so many days in a row since I started drinking in my early 20ā€™s. I canā€™t say Iā€™d have gotten this far on mere will power alone. This forum is a life saver. You guys are a God send. Have a safe and peaceful new years eve.

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@Fargesia_murielae thank you for the shout out! Really shows the power of mature conversation, and seeking to understand. I am enjoying getting to know you :blush:

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Back to Day One. I crawled pretty deep under my depression blanket. I honestly didnā€™t think Iā€™d make it to 2020. I am glad I stuck around. 2020 is the year to get a grip on the PTSD, anxiety and depression.

Newsflash: Alcohol makes it so much worse.

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Ditto. I was a little discouraged to see the shenanigans, when I came back.

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Amen! That is the purpose of the forum!

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Glad to see you back Jene, I am here for you always!!

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Luv ya, girl!

Well letā€™s have our good vibes be louder than the chaos! Havenā€™t seen you in a while @EarnIt How are you?

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Sober today! Thatā€™s a start!

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Well put @anon13078412. This characterā€™s been needlessly digging away at individuals including yourself, even insulting a moderator for reasons only known to himself.
Thereā€™s no sense in tolerating that sort of shittiness (under the guise of humour) on the forum.

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