# Coming back
**URL:** https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883
**Category:** Relapses
**Created:** [January 30, 2021, 12:12pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883 "2021-01-30T12:12:19Z")
**Posts on this page:** 15
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### Author:  [@StayingBusyInMa](https://talkingsober.com/u/StayingBusyInMa)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 12:12pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/1 "2021-01-30T12:12:19Z")
Coming back day one, looking for a real sense of community, reading this naked mind has been a big help
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### Author:  [@Thirdmonkey](https://talkingsober.com/u/Thirdmonkey)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 12:13pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/2 "2021-01-30T12:13:15Z")
Welcome back! Stay awhile!!!
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### Author:  [@Porcha](https://talkingsober.com/u/Porcha)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 12:28pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/3 "2021-01-30T12:28:05Z")
Welcome back!
I got Alan Carrs The Easy Way, its been super helpful, along with coming on here and yapping 🖤
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### Author:  [@StayingBusyInMa](https://talkingsober.com/u/StayingBusyInMa)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 1:04pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/5 "2021-01-30T13:04:08Z")
Physically I’m doing ok, mentally my headspace will get better with time
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### Author:  [@Dolse71](https://talkingsober.com/u/Dolse71)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 1:11pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/7 "2021-01-30T13:11:26Z")
Your last post was a year ago, how long did you stay clean or sober, where did it begin to go wrong?
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### Author:  [@4649Tobeme-now](https://talkingsober.com/u/4649Tobeme-now)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 1:13pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/8 "2021-01-30T13:13:23Z")
I am sorta new here. Still trying to find my way. Sober 2 -30 stretches. Just keep trying again. I don’t have any advice. Just good vibes sent to you for a strong start and satisfaction.
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### Author:  [@StayingBusyInMa](https://talkingsober.com/u/StayingBusyInMa)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 1:25pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/9 "2021-01-30T13:25:10Z")
I did not have a real everyday system that put my recovery first, and I was lucky to avoid situations or cravings until now
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### Author:  [@Kipper](https://talkingsober.com/u/Kipper)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 1:26pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/11 "2021-01-30T13:26:32Z")
Another vote for Allan Carr’s book here. I also love podcasts and there are lots on sobriety.
Welcome back!
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### Author:  [@Dolse71](https://talkingsober.com/u/Dolse71)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 1:40pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/12 "2021-01-30T13:40:30Z")
it’s good to hear you know what you were doing wasn’t working and now can try a different approach, if we keep doing the same thing we will get the same results. I used to think I could just think myself sober and failed every time now I have a daily routine and people I can turn to. I wish you all the best and if you ever need anything don’t hesitate to ask.
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### Author:  [@SassyRocks](https://talkingsober.com/u/SassyRocks)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 2:25pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/13 "2021-01-30T14:25:56Z")
Welcome back!! Here is a link to an older thread you may enjoy (or participated in!)…it has just started up again as well…
> [@"This Naked Mind" Book Club Discussion](https://talkingsober.com/t/this-naked-mind-book-club-discussion/33139):
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> Hi all. I will begin by posting 5 questions to start off the discussion today. Feel free to post your own questions. Here we go!!!
I really found her book quite helpful in early sobriety as well. Us all the tools you can!
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### Author:  [@StayingBusyInMa](https://talkingsober.com/u/StayingBusyInMa)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 2:41pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/15 "2021-01-30T14:41:06Z")
Thank you!!
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### Author:  [@anon27700620](https://talkingsober.com/u/anon27700620)
#### Post date: [January 30, 2021, 9:45pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/16 "2021-01-30T21:45:59Z")
I like Alan Carr too… his book was a lot of help for me.
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### Author:  [@BrownCow](https://talkingsober.com/u/BrownCow)
#### Post date: [January 31, 2021, 4:26pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/17 "2021-01-31T16:26:00Z")
Welcome back! I think I speak for everyone by saying we’re glad you came back. Keep it up. We’re all here for one another. 😌
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### Author:  [@Nanuk1987](https://talkingsober.com/u/Nanuk1987)
#### Post date: [January 31, 2021, 4:33pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/18 "2021-01-31T16:33:34Z")
Welcome back!
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### Author:  [@anon10035965](https://talkingsober.com/u/anon10035965)
#### Post date: [January 31, 2021, 4:36pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/coming-back/108883/19 "2021-01-31T16:36:27Z")
Welcome back!! 👍