Just take it easy. Don’t push yourself. You’re doing great!
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nor have I and I may never do it. Sober is sober. Steps are just another tool if you need them. Not all recovering addicts go to AA or NA. Only Your mind and hp will tell you what to do and when. Until that moment it’s not the right time. 
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Well said Paul,
Wow he does say some good stuff sometimes! 
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I agree.
I have been to couple AA meetings, and I don’t think I’ll get much benefits from them, regarding my recovery.
I think it all comes down to how I handle my sober days.
How mindful am I about these addiction free days 
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I was wanting to ask some advice actually…firstly thank you guys so much for being kn this journey with me. 
I am finding quite abit of benefit from attending meetings, I made a friend there too. I dont mean this in a mean way, but it does seem like drama follows her around, it isnt usually her fault from what I can tell, but she definitely doesn’t make things easier for herself. Shes has this rivalry with another member (long before I started attending), and her sponsor has suggested she moves to AA instead of NA to avoid conflict, as a friend I want to support her but at the same time I like the group I’m in. Sometimes they are mean and catty to one another, which makes me worry about how they will treat me down the track, but most of the time it’s really rewarding. Should I go to AA with her instead?
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You could certainly give a go. More ammunition under your belt.
I don’t like this " catty " thing you say is going on.
That sort of thing shouldn’t be happening, not in AA/NA.
I’d be very careful to stay well away from that sort of thing.
Don’t forget that this is your journey, so don’t go getting tied up in something that could be damaging.
That said, it’s up to you to decide what you can do for your friend.
No harm will come from going to the AA with her.
You might get something yourself from it.
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It’s more so one individual. Apparently she is loads better but a few people have complained about her to their sponsors. I’m reluctant to attend AA instead purely because NA has helped me so much already and it fits into my timetable really well. I just want sure it I should leave NA and attend AA with my friend instead because of the incident, or whether, if she is the issue (it’s too early to tell at this point) it’s better to stay pit for now. And what if she reacts badly to me wanting to stay?
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This is where you have to do what you think is best for you unfortunately. Talk to your friend about it. Tell her your doubts and misgivings.
Okay I will pray on it and then I’ll chat to her thank you! 
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Yes, do what’s important for You, and don’t let others influence You negatively in Your decision making.
In the end it’s You, who lives the live You have, so it’s important for You to make the responsible decisions, that benefit You. Others don’t have to agree with Your decisions and that’s fine
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Hey team,
Checking in in day 23…whoa 1 week away from my 30 day tag 
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That’s insane!!
I am so grateful to everyone here for helping me push through. I’ve been a bit distracted with things, hence jot checking in often enough, but I will try to refocus so I stay on track.
I am so grateful today! All the love team! X
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This is only a suggestion, why don’t you go to both meetings if you can fit them in your schedule. This way you can see what will be best for you. I’m just worried if you follow her and it doesn’t work out then you’ll feel funny going back to the other meeting. She doesn’t have to know your still going to the 1st and yet you’re still supporting her.
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Hi team, checking in at 25 days,
I am tired as today and abit grumpy but I’m hoping to give the steps a whack today hehe
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Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your faith in Christ. I’ve felt so alone as a Christian in this struggle. I recently came back from an 8 month relapse, prior to that I had almost one year of recovery. In this time, I realized that I am completely powerless over addiction and sin in my life. I finally have accepted that I am, in fact, an addict. I am addict saved by grace through faith in Christ. We all stumble. We all fall short. I am proud of you for reaching out and seeking help! You are loved by your Creator! You are fearfully and wonderfully made!
Acceptance has been my main struggle lately. Accepting that I can not control/fix people, places, or this broken world has been hard. Taking note of what I can control—my attitude, reactions, words, actions—has helped me so much. I am powerless but I am not helpless. We have bold access to our Father through Jesus and can bring every hurt, struggle, insecurity, fear, etc. before Him and trust that He will work all things together for our good and His glory(Romans 8:28). I’ll be praying for you, dear sister!
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Welcome to the forum @savedbygrace2016. There’s lots of great information on here so take some time to read through the threads. Feel free to ask questions. There’s so many wonderful people to interact with. We’re all a bunch of addicts helping each other along this sober journey. 
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Thank you so much for your kind words!! I totally understand what you mean about feeling alone, christian or not I have found a ton of sincere and welcoming support on this forum.
Feel free to PM me anytime
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Let there battle be there’s.
This is your group it is your recovery.
Do not commit to a fellow in a way that makes you feel “owed” guilt has no place in the rooms.
Remember we are all sick people. 
And not to forget! Your 30 coming up giving me goosebumps when I think how lost you felt just 30 days ago. You are a joy and heartwarming part of my recovery. I learned from you through the good and the bad Stacey. Thank you for letting me be a readalong in your journey
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Hi you! Like Stacey says… We don’t tend to single people out on religion or any other flavor for that matter.
It doesn’t even matter what your DOC is. We are all in this for the same reason finding a new way of life.
Feel free to share your troubles and your joy. Ask questions and ridicule addiction just the same.
Enjoy your journey we will be right here
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Aw huh that means so much!!
I am excited about it too tbh. Just taking it a day at a time but I wont lie I’m stoked Haha
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Staaaaaaaaceeey that rocks!
Good for you 
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