Oh that is a rough morning! That was not okay of your husband to push you like that. Whatever you did or did not do, you did not deserve it! I wish there was a way to make him see that and get beyond the “but you…” mentality. But I don’t know, you communicated clearly, and it’s up to him at that point to evaluate his behaviour. Maybe with more time/space from this event he might come around, I hope.
Don’t be sorry. You’re not an emotional spaz to feel this way, it’s not whining, and I’m glad you came to vent to us. We’ve got your back.
You can usually choose from a whole bunch of different flavours, and sometimes different types of pearls too (the things in the bottom). Standard is tapioca, but they can be coconut jelly or something else, even little spheres filled with fruit juice that pop when you go to chew them. They’re all over the place in some parts here, I think it’s originally an Asian thing that spread over the ocean. If you go try it, probably best to think of it more like a sweet/iced/dessert-y drink, and less like tea. It’s fun to try just for the experience
Hey there, I’m sorry the man who took a vow to honor you isn’t doing that. It’s hard enough to keep kids on a good path with the outside world constantly getting in the way but to face it in your home really is a difficult situation. Maybe you can remind him of his duties as husband, father and man. I’ll not voice my opinion other then this, as I havent been asked. I’m sorry your feeling like this but it will pass…yes?
Darling that is absolutely not right. It was a disrespectful gesture especially done with your little one present. I’m sorry and angry that you are hurt. Let me tell you something… when I was still drinking, about a year and a half ago, few months before I got sober, we had a quarrel with my husband. Both were wasted and I said some really bitter things at him cause he had had an affair with someone earlier that spring. He couldn’t cope verbally and started to strangle me. I’m half of his size and I knew he could kill me if he wanted. Kids were inside the country house at that moment. He then released me and walked off. And I cried like a siren, because of disappointment and feeling of something ending. I thought we had been on the same side, friends and strong together, whatever comes. And it was gone. My older girl found me crying and drunken. She comforted me and took me to bed. Boy do I feel bad telling you this… That anyhow was a start of a long process. We went to see a marital councellor, I reached out for help with my addiction and help for my girl with her deep anxiety. Today I’m sober, we re separated and my girl gets the help she needs.
I believe you have some difficult decisions/actions to make and take. The most important thing now is that you take care of you, your sobriety and the little guy. Hugs and all the strength in the universe. Love you and am here for you
Just to cheer you peeps up a little… daily greeting I suppose is open for all feelings and even for not feeling anything at all. This is a safe place to vent everything. So, I have this thing about Italian language, food, films etc and as the darkest feature, music called italo disco… here you go with Umberto
Geoff, everyone staying sober today is strong and by every sober day getting stronger. If my experience will help someone to see his/her situation a bit more clearly I’m happy to open up. Otherwise it’s just past things. Pain doesn’t make one a better person, but one can learn from it.
Miss banana so glad your out of that relationship now, it sounds like a very stressful time for you all. Hugs. How are you today, sorry I’ve been really distracted and not about too much, miss you guys.
@Salty sorry your hubby thinks that’s acceptable, I have been through similar with my ex. Feel free to msg me anytime. Hows your tiny human doing?? I’m getting ready to make this darn tractor cake later in the week wish me luck.
Hello everyone else hope your all super and sober, big hugs from a wet cold UK x
