Ooh! Yes!!! I was too busy looking at Ronin. I didn’t notice. Just went back, and crikey!
I’m doing ok. Very tired, but as I’m working from home and it’s lunchtime, I have this sudden need to clean around my kitchen sink
I know me too
Hi Fran I 'm good, but tired, surprise surprise. So much happening around me can’t keep track but try ride the wave. How u??
Good lass, nice to have the kids home? Do thy help out much?? All good here thank you xx
What ya talking about.
Sorry should gave said they…do they (the kids) help out much, with housework, shopping?? So mummy banana can rest?
No really it has been lovely to have them here but to be honest extra tiring. Tomorrow afternoon they will go back to their daddy.
Understood what you said the older one is quite independent, makes her breakfasts etc and if I pay her little extra, walks the dog sometimes or looks after her little sister, but usually it ends up in a fight. The fights and younger one’s melt downs are the hardest part
Ohhh! Lol, I’m a bit slow today
Nevermind I’m slow all the time
In early sobriety I oftentimes thought about all the time I wasted, drunk, passed out, or hungover. What I regretted most was all the goodnight hugs and kisses from my little girl, that I missed, because I was passed out. What made me especially sad was realizing that I only get a certain number of moments like this. Ine day she will be grown and on her own, and I won’t get those hugs.
Can’t get them back, but what I can do is never miss another and to double-up whenever possible. To do this, I must stay sober.
The good news is I haven’t missed one, in 668 days.
Inspiring as usual Steve. Thank you for that - I love what you wrote.
Hey Tom. Can you go know! Is everything sorted?
“Double-up whenever possible” - LOVE this. Atta boy
Hey Y-S, hows things. My kids are 13 and 10 and I’ve made a point to tuck them both in each night. It’s been it’s own reward to see how the relationship has grown. Each in their own way have grown closer to me in sobriety, a gift that I dont take lightly…I’m sure you know the feeling…
I do, and it’s one of the best things amongst so many good things, about sobriety.
As you predicted Geoff, a few snafus with plumbing (bad cartridge in a new shower fixture, bad hose connection in new sink faucet, tile guys covered access panel for water shut off with tiles!). But all that is sorted out now…so I’ll soon be taking a shower after 2 grueling days of sweat and no shower Lol…last step is electrician tomorrow but nothing urgent