Still here! Feeling ok, sleeping well at night but still quite tired. Husband went off to the pub for 3 hrs, I declined stayed at home and watched Wimbledon.
It’s a little concerning and I’m wondering how our relationship will hold up; we’ll see, hope everyone is doing well xx
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Congrats on day 5 Bokkie.
I got sober while my wife drank. We were drinking buddies for a long time. It was hard. But I wanted sobriety so badly. I used this forum a lot. She supported my sobriety but she made it clear she was still going to drink. It didn’t really bother me. Her drinking the first year or so of my sobriety. I was so focused on me and my sobriety it didn’t really matter what she did.
ODAAT.
Just for today.
Keep up the great work.
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Maybe speak to him tell him of you worries wish you well
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Just focus on your goal of you not drinking and don’t get upset when you see your Husband drinking. He is himself and you are you,
When I first got clean I didn’t live in a clean environment and I had to let other people make decisions for themselves so I can relate. Focus on your own recovery instead
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Congratulations on day 5!! I can understand the feelings when your loved one is still drinking. I live with a daily drinker, who drinks at home, doesn’t go out. It can be a bit overwhelming, and your feelings are valid. Focus on you, your sobriety. Here if you need to chat.
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