# Decided to quit drinking today after ruining my marriage

**URL:** https://talkingsober.com/t/decided-to-quit-drinking-today-after-ruining-my-marriage/179584
**Category:** Your Story
**Tags:** sober, alcohol
**Created:** [March 2, 2024, 7:37pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/decided-to-quit-drinking-today-after-ruining-my-marriage/179584 "2024-03-02T19:37:01Z")
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### Author: ![Dazercat](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/dazercat/32/470527_2.png) [@Dazercat](https://talkingsober.com/u/Dazercat)
#### Post date: [March 2, 2024, 8:48pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/decided-to-quit-drinking-today-after-ruining-my-marriage/179584/6 "2024-03-02T20:48:59Z")

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Welcome Gabe.  
Sounds like you got a great wife there. That’s something to be truly grateful for.

I don’t usually like to give advice but share through my experience strength and hope. But………the 2 of you could surround yourselves with recovery if you were both willing. It’s a family disease.

I go to Al-Anon because my wife is an active alcoholic and I go to AA because I am a recovering alcoholic. I’m just fantasizing about how much the 2 of you could learn about this disease together and separately and how beautiful a thing it could turn out to be. And you could support each other.

Anyway. I’m don’t with advice.

Have a good read around

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