Good for you. Im trying to rewatch seasons 6 and 7 of GoT before sunday night. Couch=good.
Ah Goat, now your bringing in the way the wooden spoons resonate when knocked against the thigh, as opposed to the common garden metal ones. I too prefer the deeper sound.
Iāve always been partial to a bit if base
Thanks this is an old friend who I have not seen in 5 or 6 years. We reconnected about a year ago, but plans have always fizzled out.
Iāve resolved that I am going to stick this out and not be a flake. No complaints if the cancellation comes from his side though
aaaaaand my friend cancelled. Rescheduled for next Friday.
See you with the same anxieties, same time, next week!
Ah what a shame (I know you will probably be thinking otherwise ) Hope it does happen next week, itās awesome that youāre putting yourself outside of your comfort zone!
Thanks, I am trying. But canāt deny I was somewhat relieved to have the plans cancelled. My default mindset it always āthe best plans are cancelled onesā. I canāt hide myself away forever, though. I deserve more than that.
Haha the best plans are cancelled ones Like it.
But yes you certainly do deserve more and itās amazing that youāre trying to make that happen.
If i can get up and feel up to it going to go to church with my dad for euchre night!
Well, I just made my own day.
I got tickets to go see Morrissey. Only thing is, Iāll have to drive to NYC for it. Iāve been debating it since yesterday when they went on sale. The only other time Iāve seen him was in 2016, also made the drive to New York for that one, too (had tix to a Boston show in 2017, got cancelled). Itāll be a quick 24hr trip like last time. Iāll be doing this solo, GF staying home.
I think back and 2016 is one of the best years of my life ā a lot of that is because I went out and did stuff, put myself out there, instead of overthinking it to death to the point where the idea eventually becomes stressful and unappealing. So I am hoping this will be part of a great 2019.
The motto of 2019 will be ā just go for it!
Thanks, Iām just glad I made a decision lol. So much humming and hawing over itā¦do I really want to drive all the way to NY, do I really want to spend that cash, etc etc.
I kept saying, ājust wait 'til next time, see if he comes to Bostonā. But there is never a guarantee of a ānext timeā, is there.
I still feel kind of uneasy, truthfully, haha. Excited, but uneasy.
I always feel guilty about spending money, itās been that way as long as I can remember. Drilled into me since I was a kid, really. Itās helpful in terms of budgeting and saving, but it also means I feel bad when I spend on something like this.
Additionally, the last time I saw Morrissey in NY, it was about 3 months after getting my own adderall prescriptionā¦so I was in the stage where I was very much enjoying it, but it hadnāt blown up into a problem quite yet. I spent the afternoon leading up to the show doing that stuff and sipping bourbon (still āmoderateā drinking back then, rightā¦). I wasnāt hammered, but I was definitely flying high.
Iām not nervous about relapsing. No way. Wouldnāt have booked it if I had that concern ā But putting things in motion for this time around has some of those memories of last time coming up. Itās making me feel like I actually miss it. I know the reality, though. As much as I might sometimes wish I could do those things, Iāve made my choice and I know that itās simply not an option for me anymore.
Thanks, glad to know itās not a totally bizarre feeling. I wrestle with it sometimes. There was a very small window of time in my life back then where I was able to enjoy alcohol without the inevitable harsh hangover and brutal āhangxietyā that lasts for days afterward, my primary reasons for stopping. Iām not sure why, the negative effects justā¦went away for a while.
But, of course, they came back ā worse, actually. Thatās what I keep in the back of my mind now. Last time I drank/drugged (June 9), I was in shambles for nearly 2 weeks. It was awful and I never want any part of that again. Sometimes I think I could recapture that old time, but alas, I know that to be bullshit. So this time will be different. No sense in worrying about it now, this is 5 months away.
Sobriety really is about learning what to do with ALL emotions, not just the bad ones, isnāt it? I, like you, havenāt much of an idea of what to do with the good emotions when they show up. Itās like being handed a batch of delicious food, but the pan itās in is scalding hotā¦hooray, delicious food! But I canāt grasp it!
I also found it humorous that your moment of bliss came to you while in the pasta aisle. I mean, who doesnāt get a little giddy when surrounded by tortellini?
Thanks for your kind words my friend, they have helped me today.
FRIDAY! LONG WEEKEND! HIGH 60s(F) TOMORROW!
Thatās whatās up.
So much humming and hawing over itā¦do I really want to drive all the way to NY, do I really want to spend that cash, etc etc.
Hell yes, you do!
Sitting here watching a plumber mutter and shake his head - after finding standing water earlier today in my basement and downstairs bathroom. Sighā¦
Oh no! Sorry to hear that, Holly.
Planning to hit a meeting, relax & sleep. I have to work tomorrow. Iāll do my best to alert, present & productive.
Oh no!! I do not love when things go wrong with the pipes, thatās one of the few home issues that really stresses me out! That and water issues, have both this month lol. Plumbers are def saints when needed! I hope they get you fixed up quick!
Pizza with PINEAPPLE, La Croix and some tv.