https://talkingsober.com/t/are-you-affected-by-a-loved-one-who-s-an-addict/128059
This may be something you find helpful You’re definitely not alone! Sometimes I feel so frustrated by my husbands inaction. I get impatient waiting for him to realize that drinking and smoking weed are not healthy coping mechanisms. I’m in a long term marriage so I can’t see how my life would be better living alone. Also, he is supportive of my being sober ,so there’s that,
Only you know what is best for you long term. We all deserve love and support and healthy relationships that encourage us to grow.