Grumpy A-holes (quitting cigarettes/ nicotine products) (Part 2)

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Good for you!!! Just keep going slow and steady. Day 3 is remarkable work :muscle:t4:. Glad you are back at it and kicking butt :clap:t4:

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Thanks.

Itā€™s a hard one to beat :long_drum:

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Keep fighting @Tragicfarinelli embrace the suck for now! Dont pick up

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I feel ya. You are doing it TF! Each day you are fighting the good fight one moment at a time and we are right here if you need someone to scream / vent toā€¦ just keep pushing forward :hugs:

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Day 46 Vape Free :grin:

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Im greatful i dont have to hide how addicted i was to vaping anymore. Its liberating.

I see you @Seizetheday

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30 days no vape! :partying_face:

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Heck yeah!!! Way to go with your 1 month vape free time :muscle:t4::tada::confetti_ball:

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Way to go @Pamela !!!

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6.5 days no vape. My other half is being an asshole today. She says Iā€™m an asshole and being needling, I say sheā€™s an asshole and being needling. We havenā€™t spoken for two hours and watched a football match in complete silence. Now Iā€™ve gone to bed. At 4.30pm.

She asked me how long am I going to use these nicotine gums for. This was after another discussion that went south, so didnā€™t sit well and seemed like a criticism or goading. I didnā€™t take too well to the question and now we are in this predicament. I wonā€™t go into what was said to me, but honestly, I really feel like smoking.

I have headache and backache and now Iā€™m truly miserable :confounded:

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Donā€™t do it. Someone else canā€™t ruin your day anymore. Youā€™ve got to choose that for yourself. I vote bedtime at 4:30 for you.
Hang tough.

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As you know of course, smoking or vaping now would just give you a reason to -and make you- feel even more shitty. Instead youā€™re going to show yourself youā€™re better than that and feel good about it. At least something going right today. Thanks for sharing. Thatā€™s how itā€™s done. :people_hugging: :heart: :people_hugging:

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Well, Iā€™ve been apologised to. And finally I got to speak without being cut down. Iā€™m finding this one so hard to do and everything feels stressful. Iā€™ll live.

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Itā€™s so hard. I have a very active brain. Nothing slows it down much. My other half is running me an epsom salt bath now for my back.

I cried as well. I donā€™t do crying.

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Iā€™m sorry friend. That is a lot to be dealing with and I know how badly you want to just smoke / vape to feel some relief. It wonā€™t help. You are coming up to the 1 week milestoneā€¦this is impressive. Go to bed at 4:30ā€¦ Hell I slept so much in my early days. Let your mind and body rest. :pray:t4::hugs:

Oh just sae the update. Glad you two are talking it out. Hope that bath helps

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Sheā€™s still an asshole. :joy:

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awe man iā€™m sorry! This sucks. Maybe its best to keep distance for your own sanity? Hope it gets better soon :hugs:

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Itā€™s fine, I was half joking. I appreciate someone who challenges me normally.

I like me a hard headed woman; passive and walk overs do nothing for me. But fuck, I think I have a very opinionated and anti people pleasing one. Sheā€™s super kind and lovely, just do not cross her. I guess it helps her eloquence that sheā€™s in the public speaking sphere and has that lovely received pronunciation redolent of home counties and the Queen and every thing quintessential English. Iā€™m the bit of gruff roughā€¦ Grumpy and introverted and I tend to implode or explode.

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I donā€™t know, sounds familiarā€¦

Since I quit all substances I do. Quite a lot. You should try, itā€™s quite liberating :smiling_face_with_tear: :face_holding_back_tears:

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Iā€™m a pussy cat and you know it :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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