Hey, it’s not about anyone eating their words or winning an argument on here.
None of us want you to fail. We wouldn’t be posting here otherwise. There is some really great advice and support being offered on this thread, try and focus on that?
I know you’re struggling at home with your family life and I’m sorry to hear about your gramma.
All of us are different but we have much in common. Sometimes we have to work a bit harder to find the good stuff but it’s so worth it 
I can relate.
My baby mom (we are not together now)
Also said i was comung up short on these days. And frankly I was. I was busy with myself and my pains.
So if you feel under valued i get that.
And i get you vent here rather then explode at home perhaps.
But please Ivy dont curse people out for having an opinion. That is just to easy dear.
I read in your profile that you can be manic and suffer a bipolar disorder. In my understanding situations as above can trigger you am i right?
I wish you calmth peace and love for the coming period.
Beardy is back!
Good to see you around.
The thing is… Calling out people who are being so honest aboutbthere mental health situation should be cuddled a bit extra because they sometimes just cant help it. Its their chemicals.
So i am on team tell it how it is. In this perticular case I’d rather go on the Ride out this wave and find the bakance & calmth needed.
No, it doesn’t.
You’re welcome. I think my response was helpful, it certainly would have been helpful to me, and that’s why I chose to say it to you. I think everyone’s advice on here was helpful. It’s great to get different perspectives on issues that are bothersome to us. That’s why we are all here. To be open, to share, to get feedback, to get support, to gain knowledge about ourselves and our sobriety. I do hope that if I’m in a situation that was similar to yours that I do have someone to tell me to pull it together.
I hope you’re still sober. I hope your day got better. I hope that the next time you have an issue in life you can find a way to turn it around in your favor and make a shitty situation better.