42 days sober today
Welcome to the community and a great job on 42 days!
Welcome and congratulations!
First 5day work wk that I didn’t spend any money on dope…6cdays sober couldn’t go 6 minutes before
Thank you very much
INCREDIBLE WORK! Great freaking job!
95 days and counting
66 days sober
3 of the longest days of my life.
139 days. But I’m struggling more than ever the last month. Feel like drinking again. It comes in waves. Worse during the day I’m still not seeing my kids been 8 months.
I’m trying my best but family court is taking forever, because my break up with ex was bad I can’t see her and she has my boys. I’m totally lost without them.
I was home every night for 3 full years drank daily more at night.
My youngest 3 years old slept with my me for about 18 months. The oldest slept with her. We never got on for a long time.
So as it goes longer I feel like I’m getting nowhere. I know I was a bad drunk at times to her never physically but awful verbally at times.
But I don’t want to go back to the way I was
Third day for me too
All you gotta do is stay the course. Family & family court over time (sometimes quickly and sometimes slowly) see the + change in the person as we get more sobriety under our belts. Going back solves nothing.
You are no doubt a great parent and spouse, just need some time to heal up.
You do meetings?
i am so sorry for your struggles Stuart. You are doing great with 4+ months. Keep working on your sobriety and letting your actions speak for themselves. I do hope that you are able to get teh family court situation worked out and hopefully will be able to see your kids soon. In the mean time - keep working on yourself and being an amazing role model!