I’m just feeling like sometimes people don’t understand how I feel and how much I want this change to happen sometimes it’s the people we have to cut off that are keeping us in the same position and situations it sucks because sometimes we don’t want to lose these people but it’s necessary to make the change ugh
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Yes, overtime you will find out who your true friends were. But it might help to look at it is you’re just avoiding certain places and situations, rather than cutting friends off. But a good friend will be happy for you. Shit, I’ll be happy for you! And you’re gonna be much happier. It is very tough in the beginning, but I swear it gets better. Keep reaching out to us.
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Lost most of my friends i made lots of new ones at meetings still friends after 38 years , wish you well
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Yeah but you have control of your own life. People can’t control you - you can. You are empowered to make the change yourself. It isn’t anyone else putting the booze or drugs into your body, it’s you.
We are not victims my friend
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