To be going through things. But seeing some of the comments, I realise I’m not alone. And together we can all get through this.
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I think that in society, if we got real and quit hiding the pain, it would be a whole lot different. Can you imagine what the world would be like if we all talked like we do on here?
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Yes it would make a huge difference!
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A world where people shared their feelings lol.
My bf just sent me a photo of him with another guy. When we talked on the phone he said, he’s a good looking guy, don’t worry there’s nothing going on. I said, I didn’t until you said that and if there is then you’re an idiot, either way I’m not worried. Don’t know what the fuck he was trying to achieve but I let it go and sent him a photo of me saying “when you look like this you don’t worry about other guys”
Maybe I shouldn’t have done that but shoulda woulda coulda, before I’d have been anxious about stuff like that and drank, now I couldn’t care less.
Maybe there’s a message in that.
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LMAO 
I love your response to him for being a passive-aggressive ass. (High 5) The message that you couldn’t care less has to be that you’re growing in recovery and looking after yourself, your thoughts, and feelings in a healthy manner. 
Nothing wrong with a dose of sarcasm and humor
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Well done Daithi, you are so right!! No harm in giving someone a taste of his own medicine. It’s great that you can be strong and are managing so well.
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You are right, you are defiantly going through this alone, we are always here for you.
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Haha awesome, what a kick ass response. Don’t regret it 
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@Bear Yep, you are definitely not alone! In fact, when I’m feeling isolated in my dumb addiction, I come on here. It really helps reaching out to everyone.
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He was being an ass, has been messaging to say he didn’t mean anything by it etc, treating it with the indifference it deserves. I got an I love you message, I replied with “I know” .
I’m accepting he’s not perfect and people do or say stupid things and I can’t let them impact me or my mental wellbeing.
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Exactly !!!
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