Don’t drink, don’t use, don’t lie ever to anyone especially yourself. Be kind, be fearless, be gentle. Find God, talk to him daily.
“If you can cut yourself-your mind-free of what other people do and say, of what you’ve said or done, of the things that you’re afraid will happen, the impositions of the body that contains you and the breath within, and what the whirling chaos sweeps in from outside, so that the mind is freed from fate, brought to clarity, and lives life on its own recognizance-doing what’s right, accepting what happens, and speaking the truth-If you can cut free of impressions that cling to the mind, free of the future and the past-can make yourself, as Empedocles says, “a sphere rejoicing in its perfect stillness,” and concentrate on living what can be lived (which means the present) . . . then you can spend the time you have left in tranquillity. And in kindness. And at peace with the spirit within you” — Marcus Aurelius
Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.
Remember that you must behave as at a banquet. Is anything brought round to you? Put out your hand, and take a moderate share. Does it pass you? Do not stop it. Is it not come yet? Do not yearn in desire towards it, but wait till it reaches you. So with regard to children , wife, office, riches; and you will some time or other be worthy to feast with the gods. And if you do not so much as take the things which are set before you, but are able even to forego them, then you will not only be worthy to feast with the gods, but to rule with them also. For, by thus doing, Diogenes and Heraclitus, and others like them, deservedly became divine, and were so recognized.
-Epictetus
Without GOALS, you have no beginning.
Without a VISION, you have no destination!
Me!
Okay, I’ll keep you! 
