Is it okay for me to be here?

[Dazercat]

Welcome BrokenG.
I saw @Englishd tagged me on your thread. I was thinking about what to tell ya. I got through my readings today and this one hit the spot.

One Day At A Time In Al-Anon

Al-Anon has saved my marriage, and more importantly my sanity.
Alanon.org.

We got a good thread or 2

Are you affected by a loved one who’s an addict?

Have you been affected by someone else’s drinking or them doing drugs? I have. We may be parents, children, spouses, partners, brothers, sisters, other family members, or friends, of alcoholics or drug addicts. No matter what our specific experience has been we share a common bond: we feel our lives have been affected by someone else’s drinking. I have been wanting to start an Al-Anonish type topic here ever since I joined Sober Time and TS. This is not Al-Anon. I do highly recommend Al-Anon …

After all my time in Al-Anon I am finding out I’m the problem. (My codependency,) And if I’m not the problem. Then there’s no solution.

Have a good read around. I hope you can find the experience strength and hope you’re looking for.