# Looking for friends. Lonely and relapsed š
**URL:** https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036
**Category:** Relapses
**Created:** [May 16, 2020, 9:17am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036 "2020-05-16T09:17:07Z")
**Posts on this page:** 10
**Page:** 2
### Author:  [@LuluJo](https://talkingsober.com/u/LuluJo)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2020, 11:35am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/23 "2020-05-16T11:35:55Z")
> [@Shellshockk](#):
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> Iāve had one person reach out but it turned into him just constantly asking for āpicsā, which I always declined,
That is a giant red flag and start of a harrasment. In my opinion, asking for pictures is harrasment. We are here to support each other. You can share pictures if you feel comfortable, but has to be your decision, in your comfort zone and when you feel like it.
I am here to chat whenever you like. Just pm me. You are not alone and 24 days is not easy. You can do it. Hang in there.
Much love and big hugs.
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### Author:  [@BJM](https://talkingsober.com/u/BJM)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2020, 11:37am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/24 "2020-05-16T11:37:58Z")
Unfortunately this type of behaviour is discouraging and disgusting but also rare on here.
The fact you have come back here after a relapse is amazing! Keep posting and staying in touch, there is more people here for the right reasons and are willing to give you support!
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### Author:  [@Sunnypdx](https://talkingsober.com/u/Sunnypdx)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2020, 1:57pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/26 "2020-05-16T13:57:41Z")
Ok. This comment did actually make me laugh out loudā¦ š
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### Author:  [@C\_8](https://talkingsober.com/u/C_8)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2020, 2:05pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/27 "2020-05-16T14:05:13Z")
ā¦ feet ones too?
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### Author:  [@Dan531](https://talkingsober.com/u/Dan531)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2020, 2:21pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/28 "2020-05-16T14:21:59Z")
1 million percent. @Shellshockk This forum doesnāt need those kind of people here trying to prey on vulnerable people. Please do not put up with that. There are plenty of great people on here.
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### Author:  [@Gabe.G](https://talkingsober.com/u/Gabe.G)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2020, 2:26pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/29 "2020-05-16T14:26:18Z")
Tell him I will will totally send him some pics of my boobs. My man boobs
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### Author:  [@livep9](https://talkingsober.com/u/livep9)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2020, 2:28pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/30 "2020-05-16T14:28:40Z")
What so you met someone here as a friend that asked you for pictures and sexual questions.Strange wouldnāt think that would happen here, I mean especially recovering. Take it one day at a time, you got this
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### Author:  [@ifs](https://talkingsober.com/u/ifs)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2020, 2:52pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/31 "2020-05-16T14:52:48Z")
Totally everything @Jane.c said.
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### Author:  [@Roundkick](https://talkingsober.com/u/Roundkick)
#### Post date: [May 16, 2020, 3:03pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/32 "2020-05-16T15:03:03Z")
@Englishd, you may break a record for the number of ālikesā to a post with that one! š
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### Author:  [@Phillysnuthouse](https://talkingsober.com/u/Phillysnuthouse)
#### Post date: [May 17, 2020, 3:37pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/looking-for-friends-lonely-and-relapsed/89036/34 "2020-05-17T15:37:46Z")
Hope you had a good weekendā¦ unfortunately some people are just dirt bags and will trollā¦ and do whatever it takes to benefit themselves and achieve whatever intentions they have. Glad you didnt fall for his schangians I just hope that no one else does eitherā¦ now letās get back on track get your sober number back where you left off!!! Stay strong you got this!!!
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