Im having a issue and a question
I truly feel valid in my years worth of work in my 12 steps
I feel i need to do the 8th
Finish the 9th
And constantly work on 11 untill i get step 12 then
please understand i say this whole heartedly
..that i may have done the others through simply studying others, helping others, studying the work, extreem extreem self reflection.
I understsnd i may need a sponcer but does another moraly trusted and sober addict alcoholic count? I say i have my wife for thid part.
From my experience I needed a sponsor to give me the harsh truth to guide me through those steps. The step 8 made a list of people we harmed come from your inventory. I suggest another alcoholic that has completed the steps guide you. Step 9 is about owning your part not about apologizing. It is asking how to make it right with that person. YouTube has Joe and Charlie and they go through the steps they helped me better understand along with my sponsor. I hope this helped.
