Welcome Mark and huge congratulations on your 95 days.
Those “shoulds,” can be mind fuckers. I still have those feelings. And I know I have to stop “shoulding,” myself.
The only thing I should be doing is not picking up that first drink. Some days if I do fuck all and I go to bed sober. It’s a great day.
If you have free time head over to the gratitude thread on here. It’s been my strongest tool in my recovery. Retrained my brain. Read it write it live it.
When I have free time I enjoy the meme thread for a laugh. Or the nature thread. Or the selfie thread. Hiking thread etc…. Lots of great threads here.
Don’t step in a should 
