My dad has done 0 sence the birth of my 1.5 year old
I’m not his responsibility but I also feel he was in the wrong
I sent him s message saying you ditched me face it and got no reply
It hurts
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I definitely understand and can relate to the hurt you are talking about and it sucks . I don’t have tons advice as the past pain left by my own parents is something I myself am currently trying to process and work through. The first step for me though was realizing I need to stop expecting something from them that they cannot give. Not expecting something they can’t give will at least stop you from causing yourself more pain with expectations they can’t meet going forward . I’m sorry your dad is not able to be there for you . You deserve better than that .
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I’m sorry to hear about your dad being so distant about your child. That hurts, deeply. It’s his grandchild - you’d think he would want to be part of the next generation of the family! For him to be so cold is painful 
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He said that if I ever got kicked out of my wife’s house I should trust in God
Makes me think
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All is ok with me and my dad
I video called him and explained and so did he.
My dad is getting old
Makes me sad
I did feel very alone and he doesn’t do much with me but he always picks up when I call. Besides when I rant.
I was to blame for the outburst. I threw a temper tantrum. Me and him have the same personality but with completely different minds
That’s ok though
This is my time
I was just freaked out about my future
I can obsess and worry big time
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I’m so very sorry friend. This is hurtful. You deserve more.
Grateful you called and were able to talk it out with him. So amazing that you are able to see where he is coming from and have compassion for his actions Much love my friend.
It is easy to obsess and worry when you are not getting answers to responses. Our minds can run wild. 
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