Ok need some advice on relationships , when both people are in recovery

So any advice, would be great. We are both emotionally damaged. Plus we are in different vstages of recovery.

Do not use the other person as an excuse to act out.
Your sobriety is more important than the relationship.
Always be there for each other and do not judge.
Good luck

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Thank you very much!! Those were the exact words I needed to hear!!

All the best. I’m going to be in same boat come next month. Partner has said he’ll stop drinking for just 1mth with me…look forward to hearing the advice of others too thanks for posing the question :slight_smile:

My husband and I are both in recovery…
*Your recovery and sobriety is YOURS alone. Always put that first.
*Continue to put in the work (readings, steps, and meetings) regardless of what the other person is doing.
*Work your own program, stay on your side of the street

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No problem , it’s a difficult road.

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