Reflections on 2025 &Plans for 2026

I loved the idea of using emojis as bullet points too, love when people get creative. :grinning:
Had to go with same theme as my username.

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Positive things:

  • My job has been going well after making a change at the beginning of this year
  • Made some progress with my exercise routine
  • Pushed myself to do new things & meet new people
  • Had a lovely Christmas with my family where there were no dramas!

Negative

  • Not been able to stick to sobriety and had a few pretty awful relapses
  • Not been as consistent as I’d like with healthy eating and exercise (also influenced by drinking)
  • Hard finding a balance between being sober and not being isolated

Plans 2025

  • Stick to & priortise sobriety above all else and not fall into the same traps I’ve fallen into so many times before
  • Continue to make efforts to build relationships & meet new people
  • Focus on making positive choices & routines for my health & wellbeing
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Ok, let me have a go

Positive things

:white_check_mark: did 2 years sober
:white_check_mark: paid off mortgage and have no debt (to feel more free)
:white_check_mark: stopped allowing workplace bullying to affect me (changed my whole attitude to it)

Not so good things

:x: my mum got ill and is still in hospital
:x: many friendships have gone/fizzled out
:x: I still hate my job

Plans for 2025

:sparkle: get a new job
:sparkle: start dating again (I haven’t ever had a date sober and haven’t even tried to meet anyone since stopping drinking)
:sparkle: stop worrying about what other people might think

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Gonna add this one to my 2025 list! :point_up:t2:

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What a great way to spend some time this evening…

Positive

  • my sobriety and physical health! Yay!
    -my marriage is better and better as we each work in ourselves
    -we are making great progress on some financial goals that will help us retire safely in a few years.

Negative
-still have so much work to do on my anxiety and hyper vigilance to the world, always working on peace

  • we lost some people we cared about this year. I’m not sure I’ve lost 3 people in one year before.

  • my worries for my grown sons… for their health and happiness

To work on in 2025
-continue working on my mental health
-build better connections with my grown sons

  • keep preparing for the future while enjoying and being present for the present.

I wish you all a safe and peace-filled new year!

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I dig this :call_me_hand:

Positive things

  • I gave my life to God and got baptized
  • I found this community, built a community in my church, and made it sober 8 months so far
  • I found love for my life again. I became my authentic self again. Praise God!!!

Negative things:

  • I almost lost my life to hopelessness which led to my demise within drugs and booze.
  • I hurt people I loved and cared about lost in my own pity
  • l hated myself

Plans for 2025

  • Continue to live one day at a time with God
  • Go back to school. Share my testimony more and save lives
  • Have my biggest year yet in the great outdoors. SOBER!
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Happy New Year! Perfect time for something like this :blush:

Positive things

ā—Being sober with no desire to drink throughout one of the toughest years of my life, and knowing now that I can survive and support my daughter on my own

ā—My family’s health, especially my brother’s melanoma not resurfacing after surgery, and my father’s speedy recovery from his recent hospital stay

ā—Continuing to feel closer to the person I was meant to be

Negative things

ā—The neverending series of unfortunate financial events I was faced with

ā—My daughter’s father going to jail in May(and he’s still there :face_exhaling:)

ā—Feeling worked to the bone, which, out of exhaustion, caused me to let go of too many healthy habits

Intentions for 2025

ā—Self care. Focusing on more intentional exercise outside of work, relaxation techniques, a more stable diet, and evading bedtime procrastination

ā—Spending more quality time with my daughter and the rest of my family

ā—Working towards turning my home into the vision I’ve always had for it in my head

ā—Getting my finances to a better place

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Better late than never

Positive Things
:smiley: Getting sober in November 2024
:smiley: Going to AA
:smiley: Finding my way back to me

Negative Things
:frowning_face: Dealing with the death of my mom
:frowning_face: Guilt over how much time I spent drinking instead of being with her
:frowning_face: Dealing with son’s drinking complete breakdown and financing rehab for him

Plans for 2025
:tulip: AA Programme and life in recovery
:tulip: Enjoying my son sober while he chooses recovery after rehab
:tulip: Financial stability - continued hard work on saving
:tulip: Healing from grief and rediscovering myself
:tulip: Consistent baby steps to rebuilding a life without alcohol

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Better late than never! :blush:
I just checked my 3 goals for 2025 that I posted earlier in this thread, and I know the year is still young… but right now the only goal that I have achieved, or that is still in place, is my sobriety! The rest I haven’t achieved yet (travel to a new place, or at least have the trip planned, and socialize more!) Oh well… as long as I’m sober, the rest will probably follow by itself! :grimacing:

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Hard to believe another year is almost in the books. So I’m being this thread back to life!

Reflection of 2025.

:ring_buoy:I have spent most of 2025 sober!! A 2 slips which didn’t go very long, thank goodness. But I have both feet are in now. I have a total of 411 days sober since August 2024. Which is nothing short of miracle for say.

:ring_buoy: I did start to learn Spanish that is going very, very slow.i have started to take better care of myself, room for improvement there.

:ring_buoy: Got to spend a good amount of time vacationing at the beach.

Positivity 2025

:desert_island: got go to the beach a lot and Hawaii

:desert_island: enjoyed my summer and spent a lot of time outside

:desert_island: that my health is starting to go in better direction

Negative 2025

:ghost: my two slips with my alcohol demon

:ghost: my Husband health decline (almost lost him)

:ghost: to much growth in my home town. They keep taken lager amounts of trees down, to build big corporate stores (seriously how many Starbucks does the world need) . Breaks my heart.

2026

:ocean: go for a walk outside every day. ( Rain or Shine) And loss some weight as result

:ocean:To appreciate each day and live my best life
:ocean: to add 365 days to my sobriety

:ocean: to payoff my debt I have accumulated over 2025

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Thanks for bringing this up, boy that’ll be a bit of reality check for me! :persevering_face:

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