I loved the idea of using emojis as bullet points too, love when people get creative. ![]()
Had to go with same theme as my username.
Positive things:
- My job has been going well after making a change at the beginning of this year
- Made some progress with my exercise routine
- Pushed myself to do new things & meet new people
- Had a lovely Christmas with my family where there were no dramas!
Negative
- Not been able to stick to sobriety and had a few pretty awful relapses
- Not been as consistent as Iād like with healthy eating and exercise (also influenced by drinking)
- Hard finding a balance between being sober and not being isolated
Plans 2025
- Stick to & priortise sobriety above all else and not fall into the same traps Iāve fallen into so many times before
- Continue to make efforts to build relationships & meet new people
- Focus on making positive choices & routines for my health & wellbeing
Ok, let me have a go
Positive things
did 2 years sober
paid off mortgage and have no debt (to feel more free)
stopped allowing workplace bullying to affect me (changed my whole attitude to it)
Not so good things
my mum got ill and is still in hospital
many friendships have gone/fizzled out
I still hate my job
Plans for 2025
get a new job
start dating again (I havenāt ever had a date sober and havenāt even tried to meet anyone since stopping drinking)
stop worrying about what other people might think
Gonna add this one to my 2025 list! ![]()
What a great way to spend some time this eveningā¦
Positive
- my sobriety and physical health! Yay!
-my marriage is better and better as we each work in ourselves
-we are making great progress on some financial goals that will help us retire safely in a few years.
Negative
-still have so much work to do on my anxiety and hyper vigilance to the world, always working on peace
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we lost some people we cared about this year. Iām not sure Iāve lost 3 people in one year before.
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my worries for my grown sons⦠for their health and happiness
To work on in 2025
-continue working on my mental health
-build better connections with my grown sons
- keep preparing for the future while enjoying and being present for the present.
I wish you all a safe and peace-filled new year!
I dig this ![]()
Positive things
- I gave my life to God and got baptized
- I found this community, built a community in my church, and made it sober 8 months so far
- I found love for my life again. I became my authentic self again. Praise God!!!
Negative things:
- I almost lost my life to hopelessness which led to my demise within drugs and booze.
- I hurt people I loved and cared about lost in my own pity
- l hated myself
Plans for 2025
- Continue to live one day at a time with God
- Go back to school. Share my testimony more and save lives
- Have my biggest year yet in the great outdoors. SOBER!
Happy New Year! Perfect time for something like this ![]()
Positive things
āBeing sober with no desire to drink throughout one of the toughest years of my life, and knowing now that I can survive and support my daughter on my own
āMy familyās health, especially my brotherās melanoma not resurfacing after surgery, and my fatherās speedy recovery from his recent hospital stay
āContinuing to feel closer to the person I was meant to be
Negative things
āThe neverending series of unfortunate financial events I was faced with
āMy daughterās father going to jail in May(and heās still there
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āFeeling worked to the bone, which, out of exhaustion, caused me to let go of too many healthy habits
Intentions for 2025
āSelf care. Focusing on more intentional exercise outside of work, relaxation techniques, a more stable diet, and evading bedtime procrastination
āSpending more quality time with my daughter and the rest of my family
āWorking towards turning my home into the vision Iāve always had for it in my head
āGetting my finances to a better place
Better late than never
Positive Things
Getting sober in November 2024
Going to AA
Finding my way back to me
Negative Things
Dealing with the death of my mom
Guilt over how much time I spent drinking instead of being with her
Dealing with sonās drinking complete breakdown and financing rehab for him
Plans for 2025
AA Programme and life in recovery
Enjoying my son sober while he chooses recovery after rehab
Financial stability - continued hard work on saving
Healing from grief and rediscovering myself
Consistent baby steps to rebuilding a life without alcohol
Better late than never! ![]()
I just checked my 3 goals for 2025 that I posted earlier in this thread, and I know the year is still young⦠but right now the only goal that I have achieved, or that is still in place, is my sobriety! The rest I havenāt achieved yet (travel to a new place, or at least have the trip planned, and socialize more!) Oh well⦠as long as Iām sober, the rest will probably follow by itself! ![]()
Hard to believe another year is almost in the books. So Iām being this thread back to life!
Reflection of 2025.
I have spent most of 2025 sober!! A 2 slips which didnāt go very long, thank goodness. But I have both feet are in now. I have a total of 411 days sober since August 2024. Which is nothing short of miracle for say.
I did start to learn Spanish that is going very, very slow.i have started to take better care of myself, room for improvement there.
Got to spend a good amount of time vacationing at the beach.
Positivity 2025
got go to the beach a lot and Hawaii
enjoyed my summer and spent a lot of time outside
that my health is starting to go in better direction
Negative 2025
my two slips with my alcohol demon
my Husband health decline (almost lost him)
to much growth in my home town. They keep taken lager amounts of trees down, to build big corporate stores (seriously how many Starbucks does the world need) . Breaks my heart.
2026
go for a walk outside every day. ( Rain or Shine) And loss some weight as result
To appreciate each day and live my best life
to add 365 days to my sobriety
to payoff my debt I have accumulated over 2025
Thanks for bringing this up, boy thatāll be a bit of reality check for me! ![]()