I’m 109 days sober today and I’ve met an amazing girl. In your collective opinion is it really all that risky to date early on? I believe I have the willpower to stay sober throughout whatever at this point because I have immense willpower and I’ve already accompanied my friends to bars and remained completely sober. So if anyone else has a different angle on it, I’m here for edification. My main concern is about hurting her, I feel very stable and well off in my sobriety but I don’t know everything that’s gonna happen in my body and mind the longer it’s deprived of alcohol. Thank you for your input!
Did you tell her about your sobriety? My advice is to try and if you find that your sobriety is in jeopardy, then explain to her what is happening and walk away. I’m sure she would understand:)
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She does know I’m sober and how long I have been, but I don’t think she’s fully aware of the severity of my drinking habits before. I’m going to have a really clear conversation with her soon and explain all of that and hopefully she’ll be able to accept it. I’ve had people ditch me still because they can’t help but judge me after finding out how little control I had back then. Hopefully she’s smarter than that. Lol
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