So I tried dating

I’m 151 days in and tonight I went on a date for the first time since I made the change. I have been honest about my reasons fir stopping and the uncertainty of a future drink. For now I’m just saying sober year although I like the change and see no reason to drink. She does. She can. And there was a big part of me that worried about how uncomfortable having the after work drink would be for us as she could have Guinness and I was there with my club soda. Sure enough the was a moment of why am I doing this, just get through the next hour and go home. Well that moment passed quickly and we had a nice 3 hour dinner. I guess sober Graham did good enough to earn a second date. So that’s cool.

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Great job bruh

Fantastic. Congrats!

I’d agree, very cool indeed @Graham_Hoffman!

Yeah Buddy!

Thanks all and I should have been clearer, I hardly ever date or go out. My schedule, especially in the summer months, is ugly. And I also don’t care to waste my time going out with every person that comes along. When I drank it was the same because I didn’t want to waste bottle of bourbon or 20 Miller lites time on getting to know someone. And even if I did control the intake eventually within a few dates crazy blackout me showed up. However, being sober everything is much more present. And that is a nice little find out thing in this new life.

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Super cool!!! So happy for you!

Well done.

What a great speech

Welcome @JULIANBOBO1 :+1:

That’s awesome man. I myself and interested to see how sober dating goes for myself eventually… When I’m ready lol. Still have some issues to resolve first :man_shrugging:t3:

Congrats! Glad things went well. I am nervous about sober dating eventually because I used to usually either be buzzed or wasted when I went out :confused:. It’s inspiring to hear that your date went well.

Way to go!!!
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