Could you look more chic? One might argue “no”, and you’d prove them wrong. Hope the changes are welcomed and affirming.
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I am 100% sure there’s a playful smile under that mask. I just know it.
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It is, you’re right 
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I’ll try to restrain my excitement, lol 
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It’s like a super power!
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Thats a good lookin shoulder 
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they look like man shoulders not bear shoulders 
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I should’ve used that in my defense yesterday, i like it. 
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Haha oh no!!
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Another lovely day at work. God it feels good to wake up sober and not hung over from the night before. Day 445.
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445 days is strong.
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Hi Dan! I know we don’t interact here much, but you raised an issue that I would like to address.
Even at the risk of being flagged or derailing this thread, I’m curious, why did you feel that you had to react this way?
I’m just gonna make an assumption here that earlier you posted a picture without a shirt and it got flagged? I never saw it myself so hence the assumption. But what I don’t understand is why you (and not just you, I’ve seen other’s do it too), feel the need to react the way you have.
Alcohol is not my doc, but if I were to post a picture of me holding, say a can of beer, and even though my fingers would cover most of the can, it still would be visible that I was holding a can of beer and therefore it would get flagged. So I won’t do it.
I completely understand that this whole topless thing can feel like it’s a very worn out conversation. I certainly feel that way. But held my tongue quite a long time, and hardly ever interfere with the whole topless conversation, but like I said earlier I want to address this issue.
But in the spirit of this thread, here’s a selfie:
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Awww geee 
Thank you L! 
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I will say you could barely see his shoulder mostly just his face. I see worse selfies get posted all the time. There are alot of things as a man that are like wow when I see some selfies but I just scroll on bc it’s life. And even if you posted a selfie with a beer my drug of choice I’d still not care bc again it’s life and out of my control. We live in real worlds where ppl walk around and it’s around us every day. But I do understand this is a safe place for that but so understanding it as well is just that
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Congrats 
Great feeling isn’t it.
Hey, thanks for your reply Mike! It’s like you said, it’s life, yet this should be a safe space, and that’s why we have the forum rules here.
I might be terribly wrong here, but for me he’s reply just seems like a passive-aggressive reaction to getting flagged.
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Dan’s not that type of person, he was probably just trying to lighten the situation and make a joke. I’ve done the same and posted a head selfie with my shoulders showing and got flagged. I won’t lie it ruffled my feathers a little bit .
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Yeah, that did cross my mind that he was trying to make it more light hearted. I don’t know Dan very well. But he hasn’t been the only one who responds like this to getting flagged. And I can understand that it does ruffle feathers for sure, when the flags fly your way. 
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It is a great feeling. Don’t let my face fool you i am happy haha . I took that picture for my wife because she had sent me a picture of her and our kids still in bed well i was at work.
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