Sober Selfies #13 (shirts required, please review rules)

Crushing a velvet dress… I see what you did there :smirk:
Looking beautiful! Very stoked for you on your days, the 7 especially!

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Then summer days

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You work at the falls?

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Ahh, I’d visit often too if I lived there, it’s amazing :sparkling_heart:

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Part way through day 4. Taking the sea doos for a test run after returned from the mechanic. It’s a tough job :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

God bless you all. :v: & :heart:

p.s. Don’t forget you are amazing, K? Ya you!!

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Please don’t do that…1 drink is almost always catastrophic for us, that’s why we’re here. The next drink may be the one we never recover from. Put yourself and your sobriety first, he’ll stop when he’s ready.

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I know it’s hard.
Al-Anon has been a game changer for me. I was all pissed off and didn’t want to go. Why should I have to go to Al-Anon I’m not the one fucking up. But it’s helping me a lot. And I thought I knew everything.
Not even close.
:pray::purple_heart::cactus:

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Amazing. Happy three years, welcome to the club. Keep it up, pal :hugs::heart:

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Bro you did it, you posted a pic of you!!! Proud of you man and looking cool bro!!! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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That’s awesome bro I’m proud of you!! :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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The bottom has been fading out orange again so it was time for a change.

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This tree is called “The Hallow Healing Tree :deciduous_tree:

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Not feelin it today to be honest. Had a rough night and was so close to relapsing again……

Love my death metal short though. One of my faves

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Congrats! One week is awesome! :muscle:

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Day 695! I’m wearing pants with a belt you guys. Even almost 2 years in… I haven’t really cared what I look like in public. But today… I have an eye appointment and I don’t want to go in wearing work out shorts and a graphic tee (between that and scrubs… that’s all I wear…) I’ve always been up and down with my weight but I’m down 30 lbs since quitting… I’m trying to embrace where I am at. Grabbed a belt that I haven’t worn in 15 years and it fit around my waist! It seems silly but it feels really good and I’m feeling super confident. It really is the little things! Have a wonderful day everyone! :blush: :heart:

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Current mood. 🫥😭 anyone available to talk to?

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Hey Aura, what’s going on today??

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My boyfriend and I…… were taking a break :sob::sob::sob: It was my choice, but why does it hurt so bad? I love him so much, but i need to work on myself right now. And all he said was “okay, i cant stop you.” Thats it, no “i love you please stay”, nothing like that.
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The reason i decided to take a break was because one day he said…

“It’s easy to love you, but outside forces are making harder”……

And that caused me to think “why am i not enough? What do outside forces have to do with him AND i?”

Then…… I relapsed. I hurt myself because a stupid boy and i just cant with myself today

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Aww, sorry you’re hurting. I know how hard it is when you love someone and it’s not going the way you want. I don’t have much to help EXCEPT (lol) love does take twists and turns, it’s not always pretty or perfect. IF you guys are meant to be back together it will happen. Honestly, I’ve been around the sun many, many, times… :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes: and one thing I know is I’m so glad I didn’t end up with a few of the guys I thought broke my heart.
Try to do something today to get your mind on something else. Say you’re going to give yourself one hour (to start) without thinking of the situation. You deserve to be happy and not worry every minute if it’s gonna work out.
:hugs:

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Im more upset that I relapsed tbh. I just got so sad couldnt stop before i knew what i was doing

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