Sober Selfies #8

Mud runs are the best!! Honestly, my favorite kind of race. Messy but so dang fun!

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True statement . Letā€™s Goo

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Repeat X1000 ! Yes all day every day dont ever forget

Thanks Eric. Appreciate that warm welcome backā€¦bless you.:innocent:

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That is such a great picture!

Hi Lotusflower, I just saw your post on this thread! I am back on day 11. I keep having setbacks and start over. I just wanted to let you know that I am right there with you and I am so glad that are doing well! Your selfie is beautiful!!! Take care!

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Love the mug!

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Way up North today in Pelican Narrows lots of driving had time to take some beautiful pics on the way up canā€™t wait to upload them :metal:

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Highlights for the first time in many many years! :grin:

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Your sober, thatā€™s a highlight :+1:

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Hi Gina
Nice to meet you and welcome. Congratulations on Day 11. Iā€™ve been on this app for a good while and have had several slips. Iā€™m coming to terms that although everyoneā€™s journeys different I need to put in more work. Checking in hereā€¦staying away from my triggers people places and thingsā€¦get a sponserā€¦be humble and honest. I. am tired of running and hiding.

Thanks again for your lovely words. Looking forward to getting to know you more. Yes we can do this one day at a time. Fall down but get right back up! :purple_heart:

I was lonely and hurt from the loss of my relationship with my childrenā€™s father which is very toxicā€¦shows how much work I need to do!

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Aww no ones ever said that to me before love cheers :heart::heart::heart::heart:

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282 Days
Life on lifeā€™s terms is not comfortable some days. I am so grateful for my sobriety, so I can see what I need 2 do about my obstaclesā€¦ instead of running from them or avoiding them. Feelings are unavoidable, Im still not a fan. I just dont drink over them todayā€¦ And the good feelings I experience are so AMAZING and appreciated that they outshine and outweigh the negativeā€¦:sun_with_face::heart::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::orange_heart::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::blue_heart::pray::sun_with_face:

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Beautiful! Thatā€™s right, flexibility is key. Lol Feelings are temporary. Not dwelling on the negative and non attached appreciation for the positive is great foundation for maintaining
Positive
Energy
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Elevation

Much love

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Joseph, Iā€™m not sure what you mean by this. The setting of goals and the pursuit of them is essential for physical and spiritual growth, and it seems to me that you are not stagnant, that you are growing. You may be disappointed with your pace of progress, but you are making progress.

Goal setting is a skill that it took me some experience with failure to improve. I can revise my goals at any time and be content with that. One key thing Iā€™ve learned from the business world is to define outcomes in ways that can be measured. And if my measures come up short, I can be objective about it. Letā€™s say a mini goal is to ride my bike for 45 minutes at 85 rpm (I have a cadence monitor attached to help me measure). If I start flagging at 30 minutes, I can make a choice - dig deep and keep to the original plan, I can acknowledge that I have given all I can (maybe I didnā€™t fuel properly and ran out of power), or stick to the 45 minutes at a lower RPM. Was my goal unrealistic, did I need to pursue it in smaller increments? Did I need to practice affirmations first, like my friend @desire2changetoday?

We can fail and revise the plan, we can adjust our goals so that we do not become discouraged. It helps to have the counsel of another person to make sure we are not justifying laziness and to help us make a plan for success.

Persist in seeking, persist in prayer, persist in questioning yourself, persist in doubt and persist in faith. You deserve all blessings and they will come to each of us in time. :pray:

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Thank You so much and Iā€™m digging the acronym. Much Peace :v: :peace_symbol: :dove:

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There you are! Hi, good to see you again Michael!

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LETā€™S GOOO on my first monster of the day is it really Friday :slightly_smiling_face:

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Your still so young. Dad and brother were in the military. Dad retired and my brother only served a short time. Have a safe day . Yup itā€™s Friday!!!

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