Sober without god. An atheist / agnostic / humanist thread. Please be respectful!

Hello! I remember those days! Guess what, you will learn new ways to deal with emotions. Stay on here, read, be active…and most importantly…keep saying no to the craving!!

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I did a lot of late afternoon hot showers and had some good cries because I can’t drink like a normie. It was very relaxing physically and mentally. And extra power walks during the day.
Keep checking in. We got your back.
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Just finished having a shower cry and then more crying… trying to just let this day complete itself and hope tomorrow is better. Thank you @Dazercat

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I never cried so much in my life. And I’m a big crier.
You don’t pick up today.
You win!!
Hang in there.
This shit ain’t easy.
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This is what it takes sometimes and it’s ok for real. Sometimes the best we can do is just get to bed and know that tomorrow is a new day. Proud of you :sunglasses::metal:t2:

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I’m a big crier as well and I totally know what you mean. I have cried so much today… but I’m not going to give in. Just make it through the day. :black_heart:

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Thank you @Rockstar24777 :black_heart: I’m trying

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Thinking of you and wishing you strength. :heart::heart: Stay the course.

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Thank you :black_heart::black_heart::black_heart:

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Sending sober strength your way, too. Some days are fucking hard. I feel ya. I just got home from a whirlwind trip to visit family and it’s been a trigger when I leave because it used to be “oh, I can drink now!” And while I’m grateful I haven’t felt that this time (yay!) my husband is turning around and leaving on Tuesday for the rest of the week so I’ll be home alone. Used to be my biggest trigger to drink because I didn’t have to hide it. Its not a first for me because he has left for work during my sobriety before but I’m paying attention. I’m here if you need support and I might be here a bit more, too. :heartpulse:

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Makes me glad to see all the support you got Jay Liza. Hope you’re having a good sleep and Monday will be better. :sparkling_heart: :heartpulse: :heartbeat:

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Just checking in and have my copy of ‘Staying Sober Without God’ ready to start reading it tmw afternoon. It looks great just reading the first few pages even.
I’m thankful for this thread honestly.

Also pls feel free to throw any other book recs at me for ‘the list’ I’m trying to compile of good thought/sobriety/processing reading materials

Have a good night all, sending love

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I hope that today is a better one @anon42928441!

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I so appreciate all the support from everyone! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts: feeling so much better this morning and just so grateful for you all! :black_heart::black_heart::black_heart::black_heart:

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A little late to the support party but I’m glad you’re feeling a bit better today. Getting used to our natural highs and lows takes a while to get used to after always having something we run to if we feel shitty.

I cannot tell you how many times I just laid in the tub and ate ice cream. It didn’t make me feel better but at least I felt like shit in a hot tub and my mouth was filled with ice cream.

It gets better though. The body does correct itself with time.

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Did you read “this naked mind” by Annie grace? That’s a good one too.

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Hell yeah bro!!! :rofl::sunglasses::metal:t2:

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