Your definitely not alone Marie.
When my life finally became unmanageable I found help going to Al-Anon meetings. Addiction is a disease of relationships. My wife still drinks a plenty but I’m learning to take care of myself, detach with love and set healthy boundaries. And it’s really hard to do. That’s why I go to meetings. Even if it’s just to get a break away from my loved on.
There’s quite a few threads on here if you want to do some reading. You certainly aren’t alone. Which is also comforting to know when I go to an Al-Anon meeting.
