You’re living my story H.
I’ve been going to Al-Anon over 2 years now.
And still learning it’s not personal. It’s a disease. We been married 40 years and we were drinking buddies for about 36 of those years and I got sober. She supports me but she’s still gonna drink.
Al-Anon has saved my life. Given me sanity and saved my marriage. I’m powerless over people places and things.
I started a thread over here if you like to check it out.
Join in. Vent, support, whatever you like. There are others around living a story similar to ours.
I hope to see you around.