Welcome to the community Teri. This new chapter in your lives sounds like a major test and I’m glad you came here for support and possibly resources. I am also glad you have such significant sober time to lean on. Have you started to build your sober network where you’re living now (outside of family)? That could be a lifeline for you, as I’m sure you’re well aware. Have a read around and consider checking out this thread:
The thread is more broad than just dealing with partners who are addicts and discusses codependency and other topics related to family.
I wish you the best, stay strong - it sounds like you’re well on your way to establishing and maintaining your boundaries.