@Sunshinegirl good morning! Well it’s morning here in SA, not sure where you are from. I totally understand not wanting to feel like a nag but the awesome thing about this forum is that it’s a place for just that, it’s a place to talk about our issues, because alot of us dont always have someone in real life to do so with every time we get a craving.
I’m on day 7 now and I figured I’d share because it helps me in a weird way, so yesterday my brother in law pissed me off and I got really bad news with regards to my business which is my lively hood and I have an exam tomorrow that I haven’t the slightest chance of passing because I have been way to busy working and moving house. So when my brother in law laid the bad news on me and then ruffled my feathers the wrong way as he tends to do. I just wanted to drink. I felt powerless and I’d had enough and all I wanted to do was go party till I passed out again. But my bf and I had work to do at home and he just kept wrangling me in because well I told him that all I want to do is drink, so I staid busy all day and telling him made it better and after a while it wasn’t really even on my mind anymore.
It was difficult to say hey bf your brother pissed me off and everything and now all I want to do is drink. Because I was afraid of scaring him. But telling him made it better.