The MANY addictions do we not all want us to recover?!?

Through this journey of recovery there are a few things that i clearly have learnt.

The first one: interpertating sober.

serious, sensible, and solemn.

“a sober view of life”

The second one: interpertating addiction.

the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance or activity.

The thrid one: interpertaing recovery.

a return to a normal state of health, mind, or strength.

Now i ask you to ask yourself,

just because someones addiction isn’t the same as yours don’t you think they deserve recovery just as much as you?

Im putting just 2 of my addictions here these are the two I am contuially struggling with, trying to move on from and sometimes daily have to keep myself in check from.
Sex Addiction
PMO
The impluse, need and absoulte risks i put myself through this addiction were brutal…
The need of a photo/vid for personal gratification were consuming.
I struggle daily with this one because even a simple sex scene on a film can be an eternal struggle

Drug abuse
From a simple smoking weed at the back of the bike shed became addicted to pain meds, self medicating to keep myself ‘normal’. It has left me for dead on more than one occasion.

They are two completely different addiction but like everyone here who comes to be sober/clean/actively having to change their daily life.

THEY ALL MATTER.
Please dont judge an addiction if you’ve never felt that internal struggle.

As always be kind to yourself, you deserve it!

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I agree. Though I’ve never felt judged for my addictions, this is an important point.
I have relatively many addictions. Some I struggle with: gaming, TV/streaming services and YouTube/twitch/Reddit.
Though I am currently sober from all 3, I still have huge struggles with TV and YouTube. Especially as it’s near impossible to abstain from them. I still use YouTube to help study for school. And TV is discussed like crazy and it only takes using my eyes to relapse. I can relapse from someone else watching TV.
Some I don’t struggle with or coexist with (for now): buying stuff and procrastination.
Though I spent way too much money, I never spent so much that I was unable to pay for new clothes, insurance and other necessary items.
I still don’t fully understand the procrastination addiction and lately I’ve been able to do everything on my checklist.
Though there also is at least one addiction that I know that I’m susceptible to: gambling.
I bought a scratch ticket about a month ago. Realized I was craving it afterwards. Told myself I’d never buy any again, but I’ve bought two since. It’s only been €7 that I’ve spent, but it’s got very dangerous potential.

Many addictions exist indeed.

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In doing some reading on addictions, I’ve come across a distinguish in them- substance addictions and behavioral addictions. We all know the usual Substance addictions because they’re the ones that are popular and discussed in society. One may have a relative or friend that may have a Substance abuse problem and recovery is freely talked about. However, the behavioral addictions are viewed very differently because most of society doesn’t really understand them. PMO, gaming, eating disorders, gambling, self-harm, etc. are seen as something that can just be stopped like one would stop staying up so late or not wearing your seat belt. Just “stop” the behavior. The struggle, I’m sure, is very challenging to overcome these addictions. I have discussed this on Zoom that the addiction that statistically leads to suicide, more than any other, is gambling. It blew me away that a behavioral addiction can be more deadly than a Substance addiction. It’s very very important for both addictions to be addressed. Although gambling is the deadliest with suicide, it is the most recoverable after proper treatment.

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I wil say this here you articulate things beyond my vocab…
I appreciate it alot!

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Which is now

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Gambling is shitty. I lose $500 at the casino and I feel awful. So I get why people lose their shit. It’s a horrible addiction. Always trying to bet back to even and you just keep digging that hole deeper.

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