All I can do is tell my story. Words my sponsor says at every meeting.
1086 days, and I had an interesting conversation with myself. I am headed to the airport and hour and a half away. Just about at the mid point is a restaurant that I wanted to try. It’s a pretty famous micro brew spot. Never went, to long of a drive after drinking.
As I passed it, I asked, (fully knowing the answer) could I go and just enjoy 1 beer. I started laughing. No way in hell could that happen. Was it a serious question? Absolutely not…just bored driving thinking. However it did make remember about a period of my life that drinking was “under control”.
I had just quit a high paying, high stress job. I was drinking so much, it could be measured in gallons…not ounces or pints. When I quit that job, I quit drinking…didnt even try.
I might have 1 beer with dinner. I remember thinking to myself, “well shit, you dont have a problem…it was just the stress.” A 12 pack would last me a couple weeks. I wouldnt necessarily order a beer with a meal. It felt good, finally I was drinking like a normal person!
Slowly, and by slowly I mean over a course of 6 months, my beer intake grew. As I grew confident I didnt have a problem…I slowly drank more. A 12 pack went from 2 weeks, to 1 week, to every couple days, to daily…to not being enough in a day. Not ordering a beer with dinner, went to ordering 1…to 2…to 3.
I lives 5 miles from work…started buying 1 tall boy after work…Just a sip on the road I live on…to cracking it open before I started the car…to 4 tallboys drank before i pulled into my driveway 5 miles away.
This disease loves to tell us that we have it under control. It’s a horrible joke.
If you find yourself relapsing frequently, understand that: 1) you are not alone, 2) you are listening to your addiction, 3) there are those here with solid advice that will help you, 4) saying “no” to your addiction will not kill you, 5) saying “yes” to it will.
1086…still sober, and loving every second of it…here endith my ramble
Stay sober, you deserve a sober life