Tola's journey of purity

3 days sober

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4 days sober

5 days

Do you know why you relapsed?

Yh undefined boundaries. I hadn’t clearly defined what was okay and what was not for me. I found my self in some grey areas which were in a way justifiable. So I decided to rest my timer and start again properly defining the boundaries this time.
It wasn’t exactly a relapse, it was more of a decision to start again properly.

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Smart move. Now you will start on a stronger base and you’ll be less prone to relapse because you now have boundaries keeping you from going over the edge, good job :smiley:

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6 days

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1 week no porn or masturbation

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Congratulations, stay focused and motivated.

Thanks, I will

8 days

9 days

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16 days

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20 days

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What happened??

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My roomate showed me a sexual video (not exactly porn, just audio) on twitter, it piqued my interest then led to me searching for other stuff. I’m barely active on twitter btw and had no idea what he was about to show me at the time.

Still my fault though.

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Side step… You did well mister and you should be proud if yourself. You live and you learn, next time come on here instead of venturing more down the rabbit hole :). We live in a world where its just so dam easy to find stuff that will arouse us.

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Thanks for the support, I’ll try my best to do that next time.

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1 day sober, again.
Got a little distracted, let my guard down and lost focus.
Learning from my mistakes.

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