Trode’s recovery thread

I took it one day at a time yesterday and crushed it. One more day in the work week and then it’s the weekend. Today I am putting work on recovery by:

Meditating
Going for a walk
Picking my media
Noticing stress
Actively coping
Using blockers
Being mindful
Taking it one day at a time

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Slower day today so just getting started, but remembering as I am writing this that it is one day at a time.I know what the main stressor I need to deal with is and I’ll just need to put up with her in a skillful way rather than running away. I have two and a half hours where I really need to get things done. Use meditation, notice my stressors, and remember one day at a time.

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Got up this morning and walked/jogged 6 miles. Feeling urges so came here. Definitely stressed by my to do list so using my blockers. I’ve got three days and it’s one day at a time. Need to put my phone in foyer mode for an hour to ride the wave.

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Hope the blockers helped. Take it one moment at a time :hugs:

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Had a good day today. Checking in before heading to bed. Hit 5 days today. Will check in tomorrow.

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Checking in at the end of a long productive day…one day at a time. Going to bed. 6 days. Tomorrow will be a week.

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I made it to a week! Definitely feeling stressed, but trying to notice it. Today I’m going to need to use my blockers, put my phone on foyer mode, and remember that I am trying to be a role model for my future kids. I’ve meditated for 15 straight days so I’m going to go do that now.

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Yippee :clap:t4::clap:t4:. Congrats on your 1 week milestone :flexed_biceps:t4:. Keep putting in the effort and working on your recovery. One moment at a time :hugs::confetti_ball::tada:

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thanks for this thread

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Relapsed. But, in a way this time feels different. I know what I did wrong and it’s correctable.

Things I have to do differently:

  1. Stat vigilante. I lost my vigilance over the past 48 hours and got complacent.
  2. I need to see my warning signs when I get stressed (can’t focus, stress eating) and TAKE ACTION. Blockers, foyer mode, a meditation, take it one moment at a time, pick one thing and get it done)
  3. Stick with my good habits. Morning meditation and exercise.

Ok. Exhale. Starting fresh. I can do this if I put my recovery first and stay vigilant

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Glad you are taking action in your vigilance. Stay connected to your recovery. Startimg with day 1 :flexed_biceps:t4::flexed_biceps:t4:

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Checking in this morning. Used blockers effectively last night. Have an audiobook that is due back tomorrow that I need to finish.

Today I am actively staying vigilant, using blockers, putting my phone in Foyer mode and watching for triggers.

One day at a time.

Thanks Jazzy!

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@Trode23 I am learning. thank you for your honesty and commitment

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It’s been a very stressful weekend of house hunting and the urges are very high. I’m tired and I need to rely on my skills. Blockers, foyer mode, and remembering that my audiobook is due in a week.

One day at a time.

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Sorry for the stressful weekend and the high urges

Totally stay focused on your skills and what you need to do in order to stay focused. ODAAT :flexed_biceps:t4: