# Truth and Tough Love #2
**URL:** https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534
**Category:** Motivation
**Created:** [December 1, 2019, 3:21am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534 "2019-12-01T03:21:05Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:30pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/437 "2020-01-03T18:30:33Z")
Lololol there’s a better chance of an army of frozen pigs flying in to hell and having a snowball fight with satan than me becoming a mod.
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:31pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/438 "2020-01-03T18:31:02Z")
I actually have no problem with your moderation. I just think you are overworked and underpaid and it gets frustrating.
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### Author:  [@CaptAZ](https://talkingsober.com/u/CaptAZ)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:41pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/439 "2020-01-03T18:41:50Z")
Absolutely not
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### Author:  [@anon17130000](https://talkingsober.com/u/anon17130000)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:44pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/440 "2020-01-03T18:44:09Z")
I know you weren’t. I’ve just seen some things that are annoying and frustrating for me. So I’m going to chose to step away and not interact.
See how easy this is?! I didn’t even have to flag or ask to have anything deleted.
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### Author:  [@SassyRocks](https://talkingsober.com/u/SassyRocks)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:44pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/441 "2020-01-03T18:44:42Z")
I can relate to annoying and frustrating.
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:44pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/442 "2020-01-03T18:44:47Z")
C’mon you are more level-headed than most, whether you want to admit it or not.
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### Author:  [@CaptAZ](https://talkingsober.com/u/CaptAZ)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:50pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/444 "2020-01-03T18:50:30Z")
I can admit that 😏😏 but I don’t want any looks behind the scenes, I hardly maintain regular status, and I’d have to deal with 58930 Derek flags a week.
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:50pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/445 "2020-01-03T18:50:35Z")
@Mephistopheles would also be a good moderator
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:51pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/446 "2020-01-03T18:51:16Z")
Probably won’t have to deal with them long as I’d imagine another suspension is coming
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:53pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/447 "2020-01-03T18:53:24Z")
@DowntroddenGoat always stays above the gray but may not have the time commitment.
Perhaps a flag committee is appropriate? @SassyRocks they won’t have full mod capabilities but will be able to discuss in private the days flags. Flagged posts will be hidden until review. Upon review the post will either be unhidden, with no marks against the accused, or removed with a mark against the accused.
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:54pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/448 "2020-01-03T18:54:10Z")
We could split it up into 2 groups based on geographical location and have 2 meetings per day based on timezones
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### Author:  [@Salty](https://talkingsober.com/u/Salty)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:57pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/449 "2020-01-03T18:57:15Z")
Good idea 💡
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### Author:  [@CaptAZ](https://talkingsober.com/u/CaptAZ)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 6:58pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/450 "2020-01-03T18:58:50Z")
I like the committee idea. Like 3 person review, each cast a vote and proceed accordingly.
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 7:00pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/451 "2020-01-03T19:00:37Z")
The way I see it, it would be hypocritical of me to lead the bitch bitch bitch parade without offering a solution.
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### Author:  [@CaptAZ](https://talkingsober.com/u/CaptAZ)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 7:02pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/452 "2020-01-03T19:02:30Z")
That’s a valid point, if you’re gonna demand change, you should be able to suggest some proposed changes
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### Author:  [@les](https://talkingsober.com/u/les)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 7:10pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/453 "2020-01-03T19:10:21Z")
@kimnovakkk for flag moderator
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 7:17pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/454 "2020-01-03T19:17:07Z")
Lol. Absolutely!
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 7:19pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/455 "2020-01-03T19:19:02Z")
I think you should step up.
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### Author:  [@anon10035965](https://talkingsober.com/u/anon10035965)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 7:20pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/456 "2020-01-03T19:20:20Z")
Thanks for the invite, but I’m not the person for it 🤗
I miss too much details in a conversation thanks to the language barrier.
But charmed that you think I can do it though.
Ps, but I do think more moderators are needed despite @SassyRocks hard work!
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### Author:  [@Englishd](https://talkingsober.com/u/Englishd)
#### Post date: [January 3, 2020, 7:22pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/truth-and-tough-love-2/74534/457 "2020-01-03T19:22:36Z")
I know you would be great at it
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