Hi everyone, I’m nearly 7days in 
, the last couple of days I’ve been coping quite well. But it’s now Friday evening and with the weekend approaching (the time which always used to be centered around drink) I’m getting anxious and worried 
anyone else feeling the same?
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Yes! I was just about to post this! Sitting at work thinking about a drink when I get off. Tonight will be 3 days for me. Help 
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Thanks for messaging @varmoore, sorry you’re feeling it too 
at least now i don’t feel so on my own, I’ll be stronger for that 
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Alcohol is a bandage for alternate issues which need stitches. You don’t need it to enjoy your weekend, quite the opposite in fact.
If you’re missing the social aspect, get out! Just work on your mindset and conviction until you’re confident you will not drink- if you aren’t strong enough, stay away from it and do something that helps you get in touch with yourself.
12 days here. There are always temptations, if you are content with yourself and the improved lifestyle you’re trying to achieve, the thought of a drink shouldn’t sound fun. Have fun in this adventure! We’re all doing this together, hang tuff.
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Thanks @Success it’s been 1hr since I posted and I’m already feeling less anxious thanks to knowing that you lot are out there and giving good advice
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Why not try AA then you can phone someone and go to meet. Makes it a lot easier. You have a good evening
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Thanks Ray, I may look into aa as a backup if the road gets tougher 
That’s good always better too have a few things in place when the going gets tough. You be safe Joanne
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I’m so glad I joined. I look forward to coming here when I have an urge and hopefully continue to get good advise and helpful words. Thanks guys!!
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Being on here helps in those times of need when no one else around you knows what you are going through and feeling. It offers help and advice to keep your mind clear and focused!! Best app I think I ever have used!! Really good to support others aswell and get support yourself! I am 12 days sober and want to keep adding to the days. My only issue is that I am replacing alcohol with chocolate!! I am also reading Allen carr easyway to stop drinking very insightful!! Happy sober day!!
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Thanks. Will be 3 days exactly in 20 mins for me. I was soooo tempted to get some alcohol after work but didn’t. I do however have my wine glass full of cranberry juice right now!
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Dude - you should see my post I JUST posted.
This shit is intense man. Really didn’t realize until now had strong a grip this whole thing had on me.
Do you mind me asking … do you think you’ll be around the forums later?
I might need a mental check in later when the going gets tough (my wife is leaving me home alone while she goes out with friends, which has ALWAYS been my favorite time to drink… AND it’s Friday).
Anyway, I’m just needing a little extra special motivation to not drink tonight.
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You have no idea…I just left my company and I wanted to celebrate with a drink…now I’m home, I’ll go out but stay away from the hooch. Stay up!
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Hi @Jdubs , we must be on different timezones cos I didn’t see your post til this morning (I’m 2hrs ahead of uk time) hope you made it through your evening? 
Well done you so nice to wake up without a hangover 
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Hi @NatalieE I read the Allen Carr book, I found it really helped me to change my mindset about drinking
Yeah it seems to be really helpful!! I can walk down the wine isle and look at it as poison. Very strange as my mouth used to water at the thought of alcohol! Going to keep reading!!!
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