What is your motivation? What makes you want to be better?

Thanks @Onetoomany, let’s do this together, because we want to and deserve a better life! :hugs:

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Agreed! @frandango :heart:

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My motivation is the fact that somewhere out there, there is a better life to be lived, waiting for me, if I just put enough effort in it.

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My motivations are regaining control of my life, and being the best version of me for the sake of my daughter.

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You are absolutely right and I totally agree. That is great motivation!

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Sounds kind of like mine, except mine is for my husband. A truly loving motivation. :heart:

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I find it hard to put it here. But I must. The last time I went over the edge, I became aggressively violent towards my fiancée. Luckily nobody died that night. I was suffering from guilt and shame feelings afterwards. Which nearly cost me my life since I went full throttle before going into detox. During therapy she was willing to come to the table, and we had a good talk ( hard to describe it, because it was much more then that). Our feelings for eachother we’re still there, but after trying we separated mainly because her environment was against it. Which is in a sense quit tragic. The last contact I had was a few days ago. She is not doing well, but I realize it’s out of my hands now. The only thing I can do is stay sober and become the best version of myself for my son and myself.

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I am so sorry to hear you went through that. I hope that you are successful in your endeavors to get better.

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My movtion keep my self busy and excrisce and think about positive things and what ya grateful for

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