What to do on weekends sober

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Hey guys,

I’m new to this. I’ve decided to give up alcohol indefinitely. I’m just a few days in and it’s been ok so far because I’ve had work to occupy me. But what do you guys do on weekend nights/days when all your friends are out drinking. I’m single as well. So I’m used to coming home and relaxing with wine and then maybe going out with friends. Now that’s not an option. HELP!

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Melrm
16d
I find it comforting to read about other people’s strength and hope in sobriety from various sources. Here’s the list…please feel free to add to it:

Websites:
thefix.com


buddhistrecovery.org
reneweveryday.com

williamwhitepapers.com
addictionsunplugged.com
shiningstrong.org
addiction.com/meetingfinder

Books:
Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book
Healing the Addicted Brain
The Recovery Book
Being Sober
The Naked Mind
The Thinking Persons Guide to Recovery
The Mindfulness Workbook for Addiction

Memoirs:
Lit
Drinking:A Love Story
Drink
Wasted Time
Between Breaths
Dry
Dreamseller



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@Melrm thank you for replying! I’m currently reading Drinking: a love story. So so good. I also have Lit.

This app has been a life saver. I’ve also found instagram helpful by looking up hashtags like #sober etc. I find a lot of inspiration on there.

If you haven’t read “A girl walks out of a bar” you should check it out. It’s an awesome memoir.

I’ll check out the others on your list since I now have a lot of time on my hands haha. Thanks again!

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Also, look up the following topics in the search engine within this app (magnifying glass above- I tried to copy and paste the posts but couldn’t figure it out.)
Feeling lonely? Worried about the Weekend?
Things to do instead of Using

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Get started on some quality hobbies.

Also, there is always AA meetings you can attend.

Just remember, it takes up to 90 days to create new habits. Stay strong and stay focused.

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See if theres a AA meeting in your area , makes the weekends easier best of luck

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Love this thank you sooo much! “Be the person my dog thinks I am” Hahaha love it :smile: @Oliverjava

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Thank you! @Ray_M_C_Laren

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Thank you I will start on something! @Goose

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Maybe you could make your list a little longer…? Sheesh… lol, jk.

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Makes you wonder what we have given up lol

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