# Yay! One day at a time starting to pile up

**URL:** https://talkingsober.com/t/yay-one-day-at-a-time-starting-to-pile-up/80209
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**Created:** [January 26, 2020, 6:13pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/yay-one-day-at-a-time-starting-to-pile-up/80209 "2020-01-26T18:13:44Z")
**Posts on this page:** 7
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### Author: ![Capnchris](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/capnchris/32/94608_2.png) [@Capnchris](https://talkingsober.com/u/Capnchris)
#### Post date: [January 26, 2020, 6:13pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/yay-one-day-at-a-time-starting-to-pile-up/80209/1 "2020-01-26T18:13:44Z")

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![Screenshot_20200126-110953_Sober Time](https://talkingsoberfiles.s3.dualstack.us-west-2.amazonaws.com/original/3X/5/5/550aab43a30cd6c948095b156ab1e3970d0785ce.jpeg)

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### Author: ![les](https://talkingsober.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/db5fbb/32.png) [@les](https://talkingsober.com/u/les)
#### Post date: [January 26, 2020, 6:23pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/yay-one-day-at-a-time-starting-to-pile-up/80209/2 "2020-01-26T18:23:04Z")

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right on, keep at it! 🙂

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### Author: ![Kiki](https://talkingsober.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/k/dc4da7/32.png) [@Kiki](https://talkingsober.com/u/Kiki)
#### Post date: [January 26, 2020, 8:48pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/yay-one-day-at-a-time-starting-to-pile-up/80209/3 "2020-01-26T20:48:16Z")

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Wow, 90 days. That’s big time:)

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### Author: ![Pman](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/pman/32/94534_2.png) [@Pman](https://talkingsober.com/u/Pman)
#### Post date: [January 26, 2020, 9:02pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/yay-one-day-at-a-time-starting-to-pile-up/80209/4 "2020-01-26T21:02:37Z")

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Congrats! thats huge! And the big 90 is my next goal, slowly im gerting there 😃

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### Author: ![Dolse71](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/dolse71/32/440713_2.png) [@Dolse71](https://talkingsober.com/u/Dolse71)
#### Post date: [January 26, 2020, 9:27pm UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/yay-one-day-at-a-time-starting-to-pile-up/80209/5 "2020-01-26T21:27:35Z")

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brilliant mate. 90 days!!! I don’t know what it is but there is something special about that number. The same as 1 to 89. 😂 😂 😂.

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### Author: ![LeeHawk](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/leehawk/32/82766_2.png) [@LeeHawk](https://talkingsober.com/u/LeeHawk)
#### Post date: [January 27, 2020, 12:58am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/yay-one-day-at-a-time-starting-to-pile-up/80209/6 "2020-01-27T00:58:45Z")

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That’s awesome! What changes have occurred, both negative and positive in these 90 days. How does it feel?

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### Author: ![Capnchris](https://talkingsober.com/user_avatar/talkingsober.com/capnchris/32/94608_2.png) [@Capnchris](https://talkingsober.com/u/Capnchris)
#### Post date: [January 27, 2020, 1:06am UTC](https://talkingsober.com/t/yay-one-day-at-a-time-starting-to-pile-up/80209/7 "2020-01-27T01:06:33Z")

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It feels like a long time ago. Changes have been good for the most part. Learning how to handle life on lifes terms has been challenging but I know it’s what I need to do to be present in my life. So there really hasn’t been anything negative as long as I just remember this is life and if i deal with it sober than that’s a hell of a lot better than isolating and using. One thing that really helps me is to remember that my worst day now is better than my best day when I was active in my addiction.  
My feelings of happiness and serenity are authentic now and not drug induced. When I’m frustrated with BS I’m getting better at just letting it go.